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04-28-2022 03:56 AM
A buyer gave me the wrong shipping address and package was returned.
He has since corrected his address and is asking me to re-ship his item.
I just tried to send him a message asking him for his email address so that i can send him a paypal money request to pay for the second round of shipping, but ebay blocked my message.
I thought once you conducted business with someone that ebay no longer blocked those types of messages.
Other than contacting ebay, can you think of any way to remedy this?
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04-29-2022 08:44 AM - edited 05-04-2022 01:32 PM
@dhbookds wrote:
What is the correct thing to do in this situation?
Thanks for the tag @dhbookds. There have been a number of suggestions made but I wanted to ensure we're giving the best option, especially considering the email with the PayPal email address was blocked. I reached out to our trust and safety team and they said the message was blocked because we don't want PayPal info being shared since we aren't able to help should a problem arise. They also provided me with a few suggestions as to how @inhawaii can best proceed from here.
The first is to see if you can still send the buyer an invoice. If so, you could invoice them for the shipping cost of the second shipment. The next option would be to have the buyer start a Return and then partially refund them so you're not out the original shipping cost. If the transaction is canceled then the entire amount will be refunded to the buyer. Which is another option if you're ok with that. You could then relist the item and let the buyer know what the item number is, and they could repurchase it with the correct address.
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Edit to add: The OP had exceeded the timeframe allowed to exchange contact information. While we still don't encourage the sharing of other payment methods outside of eBay, contact information like that can be shared if within the given transaction window. If you're outside of that timeframe, then you'll get a message letting you know it's outside the approved window. It's important to keep in mind though, that any monetary transactions that take place outside of eBay, do not qualify for protection under the Money Back Guarantee, seller protections, etc.
One additional option that was shared, and missed in my original response, is that sellers can also partially refund a buyer via the eBay payment they received.
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04-28-2022 06:18 AM
Once you change the address your seller protection goes away. I would cancel the sale stating “problem with buyer address” and see if you can’t deduct the first shipping charge out. You might want to call eBay and get their opinion on this- it seems really sketchy. Depending on the amount of the item, I might just cancel altogether.
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04-28-2022 06:24 AM
You should refund the original transaction, list it again (making the customer aware of the new listing), and have him/her purchase it again with the proper address.
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04-28-2022 06:57 AM
If you click on the "order details" page of your sold items it will show the buyer's phone number. You can try just giving them a call on the ol' howdy machine.
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04-28-2022 08:16 AM - edited 04-28-2022 08:20 AM
@pburn wrote:You should refund the original transaction, list it again (making the customer aware of the new listing), and have him/her purchase it again with the proper address.
The item was $17.50 + $6 shipping.
I have more currently listed right now.
Thanks for the suggestion but doing it this way would not get me the extra $6 he owes me for shipping it to him twice.
Perhaps i'm stuck having to contact ebay?
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04-28-2022 08:17 AM - edited 04-28-2022 08:18 AM
@m60driver wrote:If you click on the "order details" page of your sold items it will show the buyer's phone number. You can try just giving them a call on the ol' howdy machine.
This may work.
Now i have to decide if I would rather talk to the customer ... or to ebay. LOL
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04-28-2022 08:33 AM
@inhawaii wrote:
@m60driver wrote:If you click on the "order details" page of your sold items it will show the buyer's phone number. You can try just giving them a call on the ol' howdy machine.
This may work.
Now i have to decide if I would rather talk to the customer ... or to ebay. LOL
I don't think e-Bay will give you his email.
You could do a "special" listing for just your Buyer as the only approved Buyer and include the $6.....
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04-28-2022 08:38 AM
@inhawaii wrote:A buyer gave me the wrong shipping address and package was returned.
He has since corrected his address and is asking me to re-ship his item.
I just tried to send him a message asking him for his email address so that i can send him a paypal money request to pay for the second round of shipping, but ebay blocked my message.
I thought once you conducted business with someone that ebay no longer blocked those types of messages.
Other than contacting ebay, can you think of any way to remedy this?
So transaction should be canceled due to Addy: and then relist and they can purchase again:
The correct method for eBay.
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04-28-2022 08:40 AM - edited 04-28-2022 08:44 AM
@donsdetour wrote:
@inhawaii wrote:A buyer gave me the wrong shipping address and package was returned.
He has since corrected his address and is asking me to re-ship his item.
I just tried to send him a message asking him for his email address so that i can send him a paypal money request to pay for the second round of shipping, but ebay blocked my message.
I thought once you conducted business with someone that ebay no longer blocked those types of messages.
Other than contacting ebay, can you think of any way to remedy this?
So transaction should be canceled due to Addy: and then relist and they can purchase again:
The correct method for eBay.
But that doesn't get me my 6 bucks back.
If a "cancel" the buyer will get a full refund.
Unless i can cancel the sale and refund him everything but the shipping ... which I don't think you can do.
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04-28-2022 08:42 AM
@katzrul15 wrote:I don't think e-Bay will give you his email.
You could do a "special" listing for just your Buyer as the only approved Buyer and include the $6.....
A special listing for this item with a "extra" shipping charge for having to ship it twice.
That will work. 😃
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04-28-2022 08:50 AM
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04-28-2022 08:51 AM
@inhawaii wrote:
@pburn wrote:You should refund the original transaction, list it again (making the customer aware of the new listing), and have him/her purchase it again with the proper address.
The item was $17.50 + $6 shipping.
I have more currently listed right now.
Thanks for the suggestion but doing it this way would not get me the extra $6 he owes me for shipping it to him twice.
Perhaps i'm stuck having to contact ebay?
I agree with you on this issue: yet eBay does not want you personally contacting the buyer and making a deal of off eBay......
Such could also be a scam per say: (not that you would do such):
but have to say such on a topic of this subject.
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04-28-2022 08:52 AM
@luckythewinner wrote:
@inhawaii wrote:Other than contacting ebay, can you think of any way to remedy this?
I would cancel the order and make them repurchase with the correct address.
What about the extra $6 I need to recover?
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04-28-2022 09:04 AM
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04-28-2022 09:10 AM
@pburn wrote:
@inhawaii wrote:What about the extra $6 I need to recover?
I'll send you the $6.
Gee thanks but you're not the one who screwed up and sent me the wrong shipping address.
Are you saying I shouldn't charge the buyer for shipping it twice?
Is my request greedy or unreasonable?
