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Getting a buyers email address to ask for additional payment.

A buyer gave me the wrong shipping address and package was returned.

He has since corrected his address and is asking me to re-ship his item.

I just tried to send him a message asking him for his email address so that  i can send him a paypal money request to pay for the second round of shipping, but ebay blocked my message.

I thought once you conducted business with someone that ebay no longer blocked those types of messages.

Other than contacting ebay, can you think of any way to remedy this?

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@stephenmorgan wrote:

@mam98031 wrote:

@henscheper2 wrote:

Hi, I ask buyers to write "at" instead of @. That works for me.


@henscheper2 

 

It isn't necessary if you have a transaction with the buyer in the past 60 days.


I have a situation where a item is stuck in Customs and I am past the 15 days after the sale.  Custom want's additional information.  It would be nice if I could communicate directly with the buyer and figure out the documents.  

 

So are you saying I can still exchange email's for up to 60 days thru eBay Messaging without issue?


I can tell you I have personally up to at least 30+ days.  In the past I've been told by community CSRs that it is 60 days.  But things change so fast around here, I can't guarantee that it is the same now.

 

But certainly you can at 15+ days.  The buyer that I sent the email to and posted on this thread earlier was transaction that happened on March 2nd.  So it was over 45 days when I sent that second email.


mam98031  â€¢  Volunteer Community Member  â€¢  Buyer/Seller since 1999
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Thank you, this is nice to now.

 

I provided my eMail to buyer day after I shipped item just encase there was any issues after the 15 days.  I do not know if buyer provided my eMail to their Customs or if is provided as part of the shipping service.  Anyway I was contacted directly by their Customs at my personal eMail.

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@stephenmorgan wrote:

Thank you, this is nice to now.

 

I provided my eMail to buyer day after I shipped item just encase there was any issues after the 15 days.  I do not know if buyer provided my eMail to their Customs or if is provided as part of the shipping service.  Anyway I was contacted directly by their Customs at my personal eMail.


I hope it all works out.


mam98031  â€¢  Volunteer Community Member  â€¢  Buyer/Seller since 1999
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@stephenmorgan wrote:

I provided my eMail to buyer day after I shipped item just encase there was any issues after the 15 days.  I do not know if buyer provided my eMail to their Customs or if is provided as part of the shipping service.  Anyway I was contacted directly by their Customs at my personal eMail.


I would be almost certain that the buyer provided it to Customs, courtesy of your giving it to him in unencrypted form, as eBay would almost certainly not part with it under any circumstances except as an encrypted return address on a message from you to him. 

 

As for phone numbers, I see both mine and my buyer's phone number on the label when printing an international shipment.

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@mam98031 wrote:

@simply-the-best-for-you wrote:

@mam98031 wrote:

The difference is it does NOT have to be the buyer's PayPal email address.  That is not required at all.  

 

We simply need a buyer's email address that they want us to send the invoice to.


Gotcha.  Yes, that is true, it can be any email they want it to be.  Not sure why they'd want it to be anything other than their PP email & with my buyers, I'm going to keep phrasing it the way I do, b/c as a rule, my buyer demographic skews not very technically astute, but you're right, they could use a different email if they wanted. 


Then as a buyer, you and I would have had issues because I use a different email address from my PP account.  So if we were in a transaction and I refused to give you my PP email address, what would you do then.  You really have no need for it, so why do you insist on having it.  Some people keep that as protected information.


We would not have any issues, I used the word PP b/c that's how I think of it.  You can send any address you want & I'd use it.   I'd have no way of knowing if what they sent me was there PP addy or not.  It's just an email, so I would use whatever email they sent me.   

 

I just think of it as a the PP address.  I suspect for 90% of my buyers (who are very non-techie) it's the same addy, but I would not know if it was or not, since it's just an email.   It's just a nomenclature difference.  Never once, in all these years, has a buyer ever questioned it, so I've never given it a second thought. 

 

 

This one goes to Eleven - Nigel Tufnel

Simply-the-best-for-you Volunteer Community Mentor
eBay Seller since 1996

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I have seen packages at times at customs for two weeks.  I just always thought they were slow at processing.  But if they are having to request additional information from the merchant or the shipper that may explain some of these long delays.

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