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First Neg . . . Heartbroken 😳😥

I received my first negative today and am absolutely heartbroken. I try so hard to be good to my buyers but I was not even given a warning that this lady was un-happy. Just a negative without reason. I would have given a refund or corrected whatever was an issue if she had contacted me. I have sent a message to the buyer to find out what about the auction that made her think she would be receiving 3 of the items instead of the 1 she purchased as I do not want to have it happen again. If she purchased 3 I did not receive and order for 3 I only received an order for 1? I just feel this is so unfair. 😳😥

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The fact that the buyer did receive something (an empty envelope) does not absolve the seller from responsibility for the buyer not receiving all of what she paid for. muttlymob 

 

 If tracking  shows delivered  couldn't a policy such as this open up a lot of scams aimed at sellers ? Or is it an actual policy ? Tulips 

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The fact that the buyer did receive something (an empty envelope) does not absolve the seller from responsibility for the buyer not receiving all of what she paid for.  motleymob 

 

 

Absolutely 100% correct... no blue needed for confirmation- jeannicho 

 

 When  or if ever  it becomes a well known fact that proof of delivery  via a tracking number  is no longer valid in protecting sellers then  I can imagine that eventually  quite a few will need to  throw in the towel . Tulips 

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@muttlymob wrote:

@mam98031 wrote:


Why, it is the way the rules are written.  She is right.  According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered. 


What you say is true only for Item Not Received claims.

 

eBay (and PayPal) also offers buyer protection from Item Not as Described.  If a package is damaged in shipping and the item falls out, thus the buyer receives an empty package, the seller is indeed responsible for the item not being received.  Unless the listing was for an empty package.

 

Tracking showing delivered means nothing in a SNAD case.

 

The fact that the buyer did receive something (an empty envelope) does not absolve the seller from responsibility for the buyer not receiving all of what she paid for. 

 

 


Yes, thank you.  The OP was discussing an INR and you are correct.  I appreciate your observations.  You are correct, a SNAD would have different rules to comply with.  But we were discussing that and my comment had nothing to do with a SNAD.


mam98031  •  Volunteer Community Member  •  Buyer/Seller since 1999
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 According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered.  mam 98031 

 

I've always believed that is the way it's supposed to be as well  .  There would be no point in sellers paying extra for a tracking number  if  it didn't protect them  from dishonest  buyers . There simply must be some protection for sellers too   or we might all just give it up. Tulips 

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@turquoisetulips wrote:

 According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered.  mam 98031 

 

I've always believed that is the way it's supposed to be as well  .  There would be no point in sellers paying extra for a tracking number  if  it didn't protect them  from dishonest  buyers . There simply must be some protection for sellers too   or we might all just give it up. Tulips 


Yes you are absolutely correct.  That is how the rules read.  There is just a little bit of confusion on the thread about what comments pertain to what.  

 

The OP was talking about an INR [the buyer did NOT file one, or any claim for that matter].  The OP's comments and my comments to her were ALWAYS about and INR.  

 

Other posters decided to insert SNAD into the conversation and made it appear that the OP and I didn't know what we were talking about.  And as any sellers knows, INRs and SNADs are not the same thing nor do they have the same rules.  

 

That is why some posters are confused and feel the need so school some of us on the rules of a SNAD when that wasn't what was being discussed in the first place.


mam98031  •  Volunteer Community Member  •  Buyer/Seller since 1999
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@mam98031 wrote:

@turquoisetulips wrote:

 According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered.  mam 98031 

 

I've always believed that is the way it's supposed to be as well  .  There would be no point in sellers paying extra for a tracking number  if  it didn't protect them  from dishonest  buyers . There simply must be some protection for sellers too   or we might all just give it up. Tulips 


Yes you are absolutely correct.  That is how the rules read.  There is just a little bit of confusion on the thread about what comments pertain to what.  

 

The OP was talking about an INR [the buyer did NOT file one, or any claim for that matter].  The OP's comments and my comments to her were ALWAYS about and INR.  

 

Other posters decided to insert SNAD into the conversation and made it appear that the OP and I didn't know what we were talking about.  And as any sellers knows, INRs and SNADs are not the same thing nor do they have the same rules.  

 

That is why some posters are confused and feel the need so school some of us on the rules of a SNAD when that wasn't what was being discussed in the first place.


Sounds a lot like that game we used to play  called '' telephone '' . You start with a short story  whisper it into the ear of the person sitting next to you and then it's passed   all the way down to the end of the people that way   . Then the last person tells the story out loud and the story  was always  completely different than the original that was written down  at the beginning . Human nature  I guess  lol ... Tulips 

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@turquoisetulips wrote:

@mam98031 wrote:

@turquoisetulips wrote:

 According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered.  mam 98031 

 

I've always believed that is the way it's supposed to be as well  .  There would be no point in sellers paying extra for a tracking number  if  it didn't protect them  from dishonest  buyers . There simply must be some protection for sellers too   or we might all just give it up. Tulips 


Yes you are absolutely correct.  That is how the rules read.  There is just a little bit of confusion on the thread about what comments pertain to what.  

 

The OP was talking about an INR [the buyer did NOT file one, or any claim for that matter].  The OP's comments and my comments to her were ALWAYS about and INR.  

 

Other posters decided to insert SNAD into the conversation and made it appear that the OP and I didn't know what we were talking about.  And as any sellers knows, INRs and SNADs are not the same thing nor do they have the same rules.  

 

That is why some posters are confused and feel the need so school some of us on the rules of a SNAD when that wasn't what was being discussed in the first place.


Sounds a lot like that game we used to play  called '' telephone '' . You start with a short story  whisper it into the ear of the person sitting next to you and then it's passed   all the way down to the end of the people that way   . Then the last person tells the story out loud and the story  was always  completely different than the original that was written down  at the beginning . Human nature  I guess  lol ... Tulips 


EXACTLY !!!  GREAT story.


mam98031  •  Volunteer Community Member  •  Buyer/Seller since 1999
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@fern*wood wrote:

They probably thought they were buying the other listing with the 3 tubes, but ended up on the one where you only offered one but had a photo of four.


The problem is the price is what created the misunderstanding. There are several listings with a price of under $10 BIN for one. When the buyer saw a price of $22.50 they assumed they where getting all four.

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@mam98031 wrote:

@turquoisetulips wrote:

 According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered.  mam 98031 

 

I've always believed that is the way it's supposed to be as well  .  There would be no point in sellers paying extra for a tracking number  if  it didn't protect them  from dishonest  buyers . There simply must be some protection for sellers too   or we might all just give it up. Tulips 


Yes you are absolutely correct.  That is how the rules read.  There is just a little bit of confusion on the thread about what comments pertain to what.  

 

The OP was talking about an INR [the buyer did NOT file one, or any claim for that matter].  The OP's comments and my comments to her were ALWAYS about and INR.  

 

Other posters decided to insert SNAD into the conversation and made it appear that the OP and I didn't know what we were talking about.  And as any sellers knows, INRs and SNADs are not the same thing nor do they have the same rules.  

 

That is why some posters are confused and feel the need so school some of us on the rules of a SNAD when that wasn't what was being discussed in the first place.


Snad was brought up because it’s what would apply in make the seller responsible for the loss.  It makes no sense to ignore that fact and just talk about they aren’t responsible for INR case.  It was the wrong kind of case to be talking about for the situation. 

“Birth certificates show that you were born. Death certificates show that you died. Photographs show that you have lived.” -Unknown
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@myangelandmyprincess wrote:

@mam98031 wrote:

@turquoisetulips wrote:

 According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered.  mam 98031 

 

I've always believed that is the way it's supposed to be as well  .  There would be no point in sellers paying extra for a tracking number  if  it didn't protect them  from dishonest  buyers . There simply must be some protection for sellers too   or we might all just give it up. Tulips 


Yes you are absolutely correct.  That is how the rules read.  There is just a little bit of confusion on the thread about what comments pertain to what.  

 

The OP was talking about an INR [the buyer did NOT file one, or any claim for that matter].  The OP's comments and my comments to her were ALWAYS about and INR.  

 

Other posters decided to insert SNAD into the conversation and made it appear that the OP and I didn't know what we were talking about.  And as any sellers knows, INRs and SNADs are not the same thing nor do they have the same rules.  

 

That is why some posters are confused and feel the need so school some of us on the rules of a SNAD when that wasn't what was being discussed in the first place.


Snad was brought up because it’s what would apply in make the seller responsible for the loss.  It makes no sense to ignore that fact and just talk about they aren’t responsible for INR case.  It was the wrong kind of case to be talking about for the situation. 


I wasn't ignoring it.  Some posters were trying to make my comments specifically about an INR to be about a SNAD.  There is a difference.

 

I don't necessarily disagree that the buyer could file a SNAD, however it wouldn't matter if they did or not as the OP was willing to take care of them from the moment they got the notification from the buyer that there was a problem.  So with or without a claim.  A claim of any kind, the buyer is going to be fine because the seller has ALWAYS planned to take care of them.

 

So the back and forth on this is simply an exercise, nothing more.  


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@mam98031 wrote:

@myangelandmyprincess wrote:

@mam98031 wrote:

@turquoisetulips wrote:

 According to the Ebay rules she would not be responsible for the item not being received.  Tracking would show delivered.  mam 98031 

 

I've always believed that is the way it's supposed to be as well  .  There would be no point in sellers paying extra for a tracking number  if  it didn't protect them  from dishonest  buyers . There simply must be some protection for sellers too   or we might all just give it up. Tulips 


Yes you are absolutely correct.  That is how the rules read.  There is just a little bit of confusion on the thread about what comments pertain to what.  

 

The OP was talking about an INR [the buyer did NOT file one, or any claim for that matter].  The OP's comments and my comments to her were ALWAYS about and INR.  

 

Other posters decided to insert SNAD into the conversation and made it appear that the OP and I didn't know what we were talking about.  And as any sellers knows, INRs and SNADs are not the same thing nor do they have the same rules.  

 

That is why some posters are confused and feel the need so school some of us on the rules of a SNAD when that wasn't what was being discussed in the first place.


Snad was brought up because it’s what would apply in make the seller responsible for the loss.  It makes no sense to ignore that fact and just talk about they aren’t responsible for INR case.  It was the wrong kind of case to be talking about for the situation. 


I wasn't ignoring it.  Some posters were trying to make my comments specifically about an INR to be about a SNAD.  There is a difference.

 

I don't necessarily disagree that the buyer could file a SNAD, however it wouldn't matter if they did or not as the OP was willing to take care of them from the moment they got the notification from the buyer that there was a problem.  So with or without a claim.  A claim of any kind, the buyer is going to be fine because the seller has ALWAYS planned to take care of them.

 

So the back and forth on this is simply an exercise, nothing more.  


Yes the seller was willing to refund.  I don’t think anyone denied that fact.   But the ops statements made it sound like she was doing it even though she Didn’t have too.  

 

The back and forth is to explain that she would have been required to even without her willingly offering    I think red didn’t want the op to think they were doing something they didn’t have to and then end up with an issue down the road later because of  that belief.  

“Birth certificates show that you were born. Death certificates show that you died. Photographs show that you have lived.” -Unknown
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@turquoisetulips wrote:

The fact that the buyer did receive something (an empty envelope) does not absolve the seller from responsibility for the buyer not receiving all of what she paid for.  motleymob 

 

 

Absolutely 100% correct... no blue needed for confirmation- jeannicho 

 

 When  or if ever  it becomes a well known fact that proof of delivery  via a tracking number  is no longer valid in protecting sellers then  I can imagine that eventually  quite a few will need to  throw in the towel . Tulips 


This IS an actual policy.  It's called the Money Back Guarantee.  And before that it was eBay's Buyer Protection Policy.

 

It is nothing new.  A tracking number was never valid in protecting a seller against a Significantly Not As Described claim.  Just a guess but I think it is already a well-known fact that receiving an empty package IS a SNAD case. 

 

When tracking shows delivery (or Signature Confirmation if the value is high enough) an Item Not Received claim is off the table.

 

But a SNAD is not.  Receiving a package is not the same as receiving the item the buyer paid for.  If not then more sellers would be intentionally sending empty packages and telling buyers to pound sand when they complain. 

 

Whether the package was sent empty intentionally or it was damaged along the way and the item lost, doesn't matter.  Both are SNAD.  Always have been as long as there has been a Buyer Protection Policy.

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@muttlymob wrote:

@turquoisetulips wrote:

The fact that the buyer did receive something (an empty envelope) does not absolve the seller from responsibility for the buyer not receiving all of what she paid for.  motleymob 

 

 

Absolutely 100% correct... no blue needed for confirmation- jeannicho 

 

 When  or if ever  it becomes a well known fact that proof of delivery  via a tracking number  is no longer valid in protecting sellers then  I can imagine that eventually  quite a few will need to  throw in the towel . Tulips 


This IS an actual policy.  It's called the Money Back Guarantee.  And before that it was eBay's Buyer Protection Policy.

 

It is nothing new.  A tracking number was never valid in protecting a seller against a Significantly Not As Described claim.  Just a guess but I think it is already a well-known fact that receiving an empty package IS a SNAD case. 

 

When tracking shows delivery (or Signature Confirmation if the value is high enough) an Item Not Received claim is off the table.

 

But a SNAD is not.  Receiving a package is not the same as receiving the item the buyer paid for.  If not then more sellers would be intentionally sending empty packages and telling buyers to pound sand when they complain. 

 

Whether the package was sent empty intentionally or it was damaged along the way and the item lost, doesn't matter.  Both are SNAD.  Always have been as long as there has been a Buyer Protection Policy.


Just so we are clear here.  Not a single soul on this thread has said that a delivery scan on tracking will protect a seller from a SNAD.  NO ONE said that.

 

When it was stated, the discussion was pertaining to an INR.

@muttlymob 


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I think this thread has just gotten too confusing and I haven't started over reading it to see what happened exactly.  I know the OP started out talking about an unhappy buyer getting one item and thinking they were getting two and it morphed into talking about another unhappy buyer that got an empty package.

 

Along the way I believe some posts were using sarcasm and got misunderstood.  I misunderstood one of the Op's posts because reading a sentence and not knowing which words the strong intonation are intended for completely changes the meaning of a sentence.  I thought the OP was asking why their buyer opened a SNAD, but instead, she meant WHY would they.  I didn't mean to annoy them, but my response did because I misunderstood.

 

Sometimes the written word doesn't come out like intended---the OP should understand that based on their follow-up.

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@mam98031 wrote:


Just so we are clear here.  Not a single soul on this thread has said that a delivery scan on tracking will protect a seller from a SNAD.  NO ONE said that.

 

When it was stated, the discussion was pertaining to an INR.

 


"we" are clear?

LOL.

 

 

 

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