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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

I ordered 2 lamps from buyer for aproximately $52 a piece. One arrived broken. I asked for a replacement as i needed 2 lamps. Buyer refunded half the money and wont communicate with me. They are still selling the same lamps, but for almost 3 times the price now. Should i not be entitled to a replacement when the item is still available ? One bedside lamp is useless to me, and im not paying $140 for the lamp that i payed $52 for.

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

How do you know that the seller didn't have their supplier raise the prices so that the seller paid through the nose to get 2 lamps sent out at a loss to them, then fixed the listing so that they could still sell at a small profit?

 

 



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@jason_incognito wrote:

How do you know that the seller didn't have their supplier raise the prices so that the seller paid through the nose to get 2 lamps sent out at a loss to them, then fixed the listing so that they could still sell at a small profit?

 

 


Its possible but I think thats not the case here. I think if this was the case, the seller would have cancelled the sale rather than take the loss.



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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

we know nothing of the seller's motives. I was just throwing that out there because soetimes assumptions aretreated like facts around here.

 

It seems to be a fact that the person raised the price because they're out of stock and don't want to lose their place.

 

Nothing here supports that. 



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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.


@jason_incognito wrote:

How do you know that the seller didn't have their supplier raise the prices so that the seller paid through the nose to get 2 lamps sent out at a loss to them, then fixed the listing so that they could still sell at a small profit?

 

 


Tsk, tsk....you know on Ebay sellers are not allowed to make a profit, or even break even!  Sellers are required to lose money on every transaction. Seller profit is evil and must be abolished!  Those horrible, nasty sellers....unamused

 

Fact is, we don't know if that happened.  We don't know why the seller still has more for sale at a higher price.

 

We do know the buyer was not scammed, they were made whole. They accepted a partial refund for the broken lamp instead of returning both for a full refund.  That's all that can be done.

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

eBay is not designed to do replacements.  It is designed to do refunds.


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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

CASTLE..

 

This buyer has definetly NOT BEEN MADE  WHOLE.  He is now  stuck with a useles  lamp that is only one  of a  pair. 

 

This seller screwed up in  the first place---by  packing his shipment poorly.  So that one of  the lamps  was  broken.  That was   his  was his mistake--not the buyer's.   Because  thiis  happened--he  should  be  feelling  embarrassed---and he should be wiling  to make  sure that this buyer is not inconvenienced  any further.   Instead he  refuses  to send a  replacement--and is  trying to  force  this  buyer into now paying DOUBLE  the price to obtain  the matching lamp  that he needs--and  that he should have received in the  from the  start.  Buyer paid  for a pair of lamps,  but was sent only  one that  was  not broken.  

 

 

To me this issue is  all about ethics. 

This  seller shoud   do whatever  necessary to  give the  buyer what he ordered.

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

Sounds like the buyer bought 2 lamps from a MQ listing - not a pair of lamps.

 

There is a difference.

 

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

POKIE

 

I just looked you up  and I see you have  been  an Ebay Member for ten years.  I bet this is  the  first time anything  like this  has happened  to you  here!Smiley Surprised  I myself,  do not  remember seeing a   a  buyer  being treated this  badly. 

 

I am so relieved that when I needed a pair of matching lamps myself---I did not take  a  chance  on buying here. 

 

After readng what  just happend to you----for sure in the  future--I will not  be  buying  anything that is s matched pair--of any items.    Except  from  a  reputable store  like Bean or Macy's. 

 

You should probably do   the  same.  Smiley Happy

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.

Return the single.  It isnt doing you any good and it is worthless without a match.  At least get ALL your money back.

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.


@garmentvarmint2004 wrote:

CASTLE..

 

This buyer has definetly NOT BEEN MADE  WHOLE.  He is now  stuck with a useles  lamp that is only one  of a  pair. 

 

This seller screwed up in  the first place---by  packing his shipment poorly.  So that one of  the lamps  was  broken.  That was   his  was his mistake--not the buyer's.   Because  thiis  happened--he  should  be  feelling  embarrassed---and he should be wiling  to make  sure that this buyer is not inconvenienced  any further.   Instead he  refuses  to send a  replacement--and is  trying to  force  this  buyer into now paying DOUBLE  the price to obtain  the matching lamp  that he needs--and  that he should have received in the  from the  start.  Buyer paid  for a pair of lamps,  but was sent only  one that  was  not broken.  

 

 

To me this issue is  all about ethics. 

This  seller shoud   do whatever  necessary to  give the  buyer what he ordered.


The buyer has the option of returning the lamp. There is no scam, just a BUYER who doesnt understand that ebay isnt like a B&M store and doesnt do replacements

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@garmentvarmint2004 wrote:

pokie

 

Of couse this IS a scam.   The seller deliberately  raised  the price of  the other one---and the increase  was  way too high. 

 

I needed a pair of matcvhing lamps myself  a  few months  ago.  There is NO WAY I was  going to  buy them on Ebay--because  Ebay sellers  are not always  dependable--or  honest.   So  I bought my lamps from  Macy's.   If one  had  arrived  broken--I am SURE Macy's   would not have played this dishonest game with me.  

 

They would have made  sure  I got exactly  what I needed.  

 

There is no point in quoting  Ebay's RULES  to me   in  this    situation.  You may think as long as it is in the  RULES  no harm has been done.  But this  buyer HAS BEEN harmed. 

 

And that's  why  more and  more buyers  are choosing to  buy elsewhere.    Including me.  Smiley Surprised


Unless Macy's is the OP's seller, I seriously doubt the seller has the resources of Macy's.  But you are entirely in your rights to expect Macy's service from Macy's.   It is unrealistic to expect Nordstrom service at the Dollar Store, for example.

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@garmentvarmint2004 wrote:

CASTLE..

 

This buyer has definetly NOT BEEN MADE  WHOLE.  He is now  stuck with a useles  lamp that is only one  of a  pair. 

 

This seller screwed up in  the first place---by  packing his shipment poorly.  So that one of  the lamps  was  broken.  That was   his  was his mistake--not the buyer's.   Because  thiis  happened--he  should  be  feelling  embarrassed---and he should be wiling  to make  sure that this buyer is not inconvenienced  any further.   Instead he  refuses  to send a  replacement--and is  trying to  force  this  buyer into now paying DOUBLE  the price to obtain  the matching lamp  that he needs--and  that he should have received in the  from the  start.  Buyer paid  for a pair of lamps,  but was sent only  one that  was  not broken.  

 

 

To me this issue is  all about ethics. 

This  seller shoud   do whatever  necessary to  give the  buyer what he ordered.


Hi garmentvarmint:

 

He is not stuck with a useless lamp as he can request to return that lamp as not as described and get the money for that lamp back, and start all over finding the lamps that he wants.  

 

He is NOT stuck with it.  

 

The OP has not detailed how the lamps were packed so you are assuming this is on the seller.  Sometimes the most well packed items can turn up broken, due to carrier issues.  Surely you have heard of that.  

 

I've been in situations on ebay where I received the wrong thing, and received my money back when I opened a dispute and sent the item back.  Would I have liked them to send the right item?  Yes.  Did they have to do so?  No, that can be cost prohibitive for many smaller sellers here that are not Macy's.  I understood, and ordered it from another seller.  In this situation, the seller had posted a wrong picture with the listing, and said it was a manufacturer issue.  The listing is still running with the picture of the item I returned when originally it had a stock picture that was similiar but not the same.

 

The seller can opt to correct this by sending another lamp so the OP has a matching set, or they can simply refund half the money.  They may not wish to send this buyer another lamp.

 

So ethics are satisfied~buyer is not out any money for the broken lamp and can return the unbroken one, at the seller's expense, so be made completely whole if that is what they wish.

 

As I said earlier, buyer is made whole, just not made whole the way she wanted to be made whole.

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.


@castlemagicmemories wrote:

@garmentvarmint2004 wrote:

pokie

 

Of couse this IS a scam.   The seller deliberately  raised  the price of  the other one---and the increase  was  way too high. 

 

I needed a pair of matcvhing lamps myself  a  few months  ago.  There is NO WAY I was  going to  buy them on Ebay--because  Ebay sellers  are not always  dependable--or  honest.   So  I bought my lamps from  Macy's.   If one  had  arrived  broken--I am SURE Macy's   would not have played this dishonest game with me.  

 

They would have made  sure  I got exactly  what I needed.  

 

There is no point in quoting  Ebay's RULES  to me   in  this    situation.  You may think as long as it is in the  RULES  no harm has been done.  But this  buyer HAS BEEN harmed. 

 

And that's  why  more and  more buyers  are choosing to  buy elsewhere.    Including me.  Smiley Surprised


Unless Macy's is the OP's seller, I seriously doubt the seller has the resources of Macy's.  But you are entirely in your rights to expect Macy's service from Macy's.   It is unrealistic to expect Nordstrom service at the Dollar Store, for example.


Not saying Ebay is the Dollar Store, but there are many small sellers and even individuals who sell on Ebay.  To expect a replacement in some of these instances is unrealistic.  Ebay Buyer Protections works, so if not happy, just return the unbroken lamp.  VOILA!  You will be made completely whole.

 

Again, sorry this happened to you.

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.


@garmentvarmint2004 wrote:

POKIE

 

I just looked you up  and I see you have  been  an Ebay Member for ten years.  I bet this is  the  first time anything  like this  has happened  to you  here!Smiley Surprised  I myself,  do not  remember seeing a   a  buyer  being treated this  badly. 

 

I am so relieved that when I needed a pair of matching lamps myself---I did not take  a  chance  on buying here. 

 

After readng what  just happend to you----for sure in the  future--I will not  be  buying  anything that is s matched pair--of any items.    Except  from  a  reputable store  like Bean or Macy's. 

 

You should probably do   the  same.  Smiley Happy


Oh good grief! The OP was NOT treated badly and you know it! 



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Love is all we have to give

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Seller refunded rather than replaced item as i asked. Wont communicate.


@castlemagicmemories wrote:

@garmentvarmint2004 wrote:

CASTLE..

 

This buyer has definetly NOT BEEN MADE  WHOLE.  He is now  stuck with a useles  lamp that is only one  of a  pair. 

 

This seller screwed up in  the first place---by  packing his shipment poorly.  So that one of  the lamps  was  broken.  That was   his  was his mistake--not the buyer's.   Because  thiis  happened--he  should  be  feelling  embarrassed---and he should be wiling  to make  sure that this buyer is not inconvenienced  any further.   Instead he  refuses  to send a  replacement--and is  trying to  force  this  buyer into now paying DOUBLE  the price to obtain  the matching lamp  that he needs--and  that he should have received in the  from the  start.  Buyer paid  for a pair of lamps,  but was sent only  one that  was  not broken.  

 

 

To me this issue is  all about ethics. 

This  seller shoud   do whatever  necessary to  give the  buyer what he ordered.


Hi garmentvarmint:

 

He is not stuck with a useless lamp as he can request to return that lamp as not as described and get the money for that lamp back, and start all over finding the lamps that he wants.  

 

He is NOT stuck with it.  

 

The OP has not detailed how the lamps were packed so you are assuming this is on the seller.  Sometimes the most well packed items can turn up broken, due to carrier issues.  Surely you have heard of that.  

 

I've been in situations on ebay where I received the wrong thing, and received my money back when I opened a dispute and sent the item back.  Would I have liked them to send the right item?  Yes.  Did they have to do so?  No, that can be cost prohibitive for many smaller sellers here that are not Macy's.  I understood, and ordered it from another seller.  In this situation, the seller had posted a wrong picture with the listing, and said it was a manufacturer issue.  The listing is still running with the picture of the item I returned when originally it had a stock picture that was similiar but not the same.

 

The seller can opt to correct this by sending another lamp so the OP has a matching set, or they can simply refund half the money.  They may not wish to send this buyer another lamp.

 

So ethics are satisfied~buyer is not out any money for the broken lamp and can return the unbroken one, at the seller's expense, so be made completely whole if that is what they wish.

 

As I said earlier, buyer is made whole, just not made whole the way she wanted to be made whole.


How can they file SNAD when the one lamp is good? Like I said, they didn't buy a pair - they bought 2 separate lamps. And they receved the money back for the broken one.

 

 

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