eBay

I just shipped something and paid for it myself.There is a tracking number.How do I put this on my account please?

And not involve eBay? 

why is my payout amount different (slightly higher) than the "Order Earnings" amount? And is the eBay app legit? When I try to sign in with google (my usual way), it's saying it's not recognized or accepted as legit.Maybe I should change my sign-in o...

..and I don't want to involve her in process.I simply want to delete that it's been sold.

I don't need item returned. I just want his money refunded.Please help me!