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Seller ends item just because I asked questions?

Hello Ebay Members,

 Just sent a message to a seller asking qustions about a item. Seller does not repond just raises the price and ends the item. What is a person suppose to do when no body wants to communicate? This has happen to me several times. I'm not tring to be _____ about it. Why even sell at all?  As a buyer I'm starting to get a bad vibe as do not even ask qustions put that on your ad. The Feedback communication system does not work on here. What a waste of time? Hope all is well for other sellers buyers.

 

 

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@jason_incognito wrote:

I always put measurements in the listing.

 

I get a message asking for the measurement. I humored them and looked at the listing. Guess what? Mr "always puts in measurements" didn't.

 

Glad I didn't just block that buyer.


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@fern*wood wrote:    I know one thing, I will never buy this item for resale ever ever again.

 

 


I'd love to know what said item was LOL

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@emerald40 wrote:

Do you primarily just sell here or do you buy as well.

 

I both buy and sell so I can see if from both sides.


Both

I see it from both sides too. 

Back to my original question. What do you feel the average buyer is that you represent?

Thanks


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I don't know about you, but I did something a couple of days ago.  I listed an item, and I am going to use a fictional price for it. Say for $19.99. I got a buyer, not bidding, asking me to sell it to him for $149.99. I could have ended the listing and sold it to him, but as soon as he asked me that question, 4 more buyers asked me to sell it to them. Some were on the same price, others lower.

 

So, I replied that in order to be fair to everyone, I would give him the opportunity to buy it at $149.99 if he were the first bid on Friday. The item is still there, with some buyers watching it. 

 

What can I do? Cancel and sell it to the guy who is not doing what is fair to everyone? 

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The average buyer wants value for their money.  I know you want the most for the item but obviously he has a different agenda.  So if you have best offer he is going to give you his best offer.  Without any type of direction from the seller, best offer can be a whole range of numbers.  Give direction in your description.  I state in mine that I do not entertain them as this time.  Maybe in yours, nothing under X will be considered.

 

  He wants to be comfortable before plunking down that hard earned cash, so he may want to be free to ask questions without being ostrasized.  No name calling, no blocking. 

Answer may be obvious to you, but not to them. And do not judge him by your last buyer.  Each one is an individual.

 

He does not care if you are one person selling lemonade on the street or are part of a big corporation like Macy's.  To him it is all the same because he pays the same - in dollars.

 

So if you are Nordstom or ebay - he wants what he pays for and packaged well.  And he does not wantto hear that because it is used he needs to live with this problem or that.  If it is not disclosed in the photos and the description, then yes new or old, it is a snad.  He does not want dolls put in toilet paper rolls, cookie boxes, ammunition boxes or frankenstein boxes where you have to hold your breath trying to cut it loose.

 

And if he wants to return it, do not think of him as a scammer.  There are many legit reasons to return an item.

 

So no attitude that this is ebay and if you want perfect and new go to a boutique.  You cannot have it both ways- top dollar, but not top service.

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@emerald40 wrote:

No, I do not make the rules but I do represent the average buyer - the person you are trying to attract not p off.


 

I don't want the average buyer. I don't have any average items with average prices for them anyway.

 

 

 

 

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I did not realize there was such a plethora of buyers swarming ebay that we could afford to pick and choose.

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I come at it from another angle.  Sometimes I have missed something in the listing and the item is worth a whole lot more.  CDs are notorious for this.  1 number on the UPC code can mean the difference in a lot of money.  If someone asks me a question on an item I usually end it, look it up some more and relist the item at the appropriate price.

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@emerald40 wrote:

The average buyer wants value for their money.  I know you want the most for the item but obviously he has a different agenda.  So if you have best offer he is going to give you his best offer.  Without any type of direction from the seller, best offer can be a whole range of numbers.  Give direction in your description.  I state in mine that I do not entertain them as this time.  Maybe in yours, nothing under X will be considered.

 

  He wants to be comfortable before plunking down that hard earned cash, so he may want to be free to ask questions without being ostrasized.  No name calling, no blocking. 

Answer may be obvious to you, but not to them. And do not judge him by your last buyer.  Each one is an individual.

 

He does not care if you are one person selling lemonade on the street or are part of a big corporation like Macy's.  To him it is all the same because he pays the same - in dollars.

 

So if you are Nordstom or ebay - he wants what he pays for and packaged well.  And he does not wantto hear that because it is used he needs to live with this problem or that.  If it is not disclosed in the photos and the description, then yes new or old, it is a snad.  He does not want dolls put in toilet paper rolls, cookie boxes, ammunition boxes or frankenstein boxes where you have to hold your breath trying to cut it loose.

 

And if he wants to return it, do not think of him as a scammer.  There are many legit reasons to return an item.

 

So no attitude that this is ebay and if you want perfect and new go to a boutique.  You cannot have it both ways- top dollar, but not top service.


Ok thanks. It appears I’m not the average buyer. I look and read descriptions and if I don’t know what it is the sellers is listing I have the option to move on or purchase at my own risk. I’ve never had to return anything from an eBay seller. 


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You say you have never had to return anything?  What do you purchase.

 

I have received dime store items in package that were anything but.  No disclosure of the hole as big as your fist that the doll is hanging out of.  He only photoed it from the front.  No disclosure of any problems, so do I ask for more photos.  Wait, he may block me for being a nuisance.  Do I skip it.  Do I buy it.  And now am I stuck with it.

 

OK, that one was only $10 wasted.

 

How about I buy a diamond ring.  This one is supposed to be cognac in color.  I do my due dilligence.  I ask questions.  I ask for more photos.  Phew, seller sends them.  I buy, I pay immediately, I get item.  I then realize seller played fast and loose with his photos aka photo shopping because the vivid brown cognac diamond in all his pictures is really a sad looking gray diamond in real life.  So am I now stuck with a $1,500 disaster?

 

So what are my choices here.  Never take a chance and buy anything.  Ask questions and possibly get blocked.  Or take a chance, buy it, and through no fault of my own get an item that is seriously not as described.

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Colors show different on everyone’s computer, mobile or by eyeing it in real life. I wouldn’t buy jewelry on line, that’s just me.
If a person only has a picture of it I’d move on. If you can’t enlarge it to see the defects that’s another issue.
I’d still move on.
I’m open to any question on items. I’ve probably missed something.

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@loveyourimagination49 wrote:
Colors show different on everyone’s computer, mobile or by eyeing it in real life. I wouldn’t buy jewelry on line, that’s just me.
If a person only has a picture of it I’d move on. If you can’t enlarge it to see the defects that’s another issue.
I’d still move on.
I’m open to any question on items. I’ve probably missed something.

Vivid cognac brown vs grayish.  And I am on a brand new, pretty expensive laptop.  I understand some variations, but his photos were definitely enhanced.

 

I buy collectibles.  I may see it today and not another one for years if ever.  I cannot just do a search and have 10 more pop up.  I either go after this one or my collection is incomplete.  Enlarging is not going to be any help if seller makes sure he does not take any photos of the offending side or plays with the color.

 

As far as not buying fine jewelry, that is why I am here on ebay 20 years later.

 

What I am trying to say is I know sellers have it tough, but so do buyers.  We encounter problems on our end as well.  And they can be quite expensive if we do not get what we thought we were buying.

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@emerald40 wrote:

I did not realize there was such a plethora of buyers swarming ebay that we could afford to pick and choose.


 

 

 

 

Who is this we?

 

We are not in this together. I choose my items and what price I will take, not you.

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To a lot of buyers, ebay is a collective unit.

 

They come on and search a bit.  If they do not like what they see they leave.

 

If a buyer has to keep scrolling down in a listing to see the natural diamond in the title is really a CZ he may not stick around to page 2 or 3 to even see my listings.

 

So yes ebay is only as good as its weekest link.

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Not everyone comes to eBay to find jewelry!

Everyone has options. Just be sure the best option is right for you.
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