11-04-2018 06:44 AM
I have a situation where the Seller appears to have blocked me in error. I believe this because I have had all positive feedback for her and from her. Now I can't contact her because this Seller does not answer questions. I called eBAY and they said the ONLY thing they can do is send a courtesy email which is 'generic'. I have no guarantee that she will even read that email. I see this as a bad policy by eBAY when it won't support the buyer who has a stellar record.
12-19-2018 01:25 AM
Have you asked your seller a question before being blocked ? Have you asked for a discount for anything recently ? Did you request to ship to a different address ? Did you have a paypal account ? Did you ask about a flaw on an item ? Did you inquire about the shipping charge ? Did you ask if the item was in fact original and not a fake ? Have you left any other sellers a negative feedback ? Do you live in a lower income area of the world ? Do you have any non payment strikes against you ? have you retracted any bids on auctions at all from other sellers ?
I ask because there are several sellers who are very rude and think they are kings of Ebay. Some will refuse service to anyone who does anything above and then some. Many will even go so far to google your name and address before allowing you to purchase from them.
It is actually best to just find another seller. Trying to contact the seller will most likely result in a non response, or a very rude response. Unfortunately there is not much Ebay can do. Your seller did not block you accidentally as it is nearly impossible to do.
12-19-2018 02:06 AM
12-19-2018 04:58 AM
@iart wrote:Brick and mortar stores often have a sign that reads "We have the right to refuse service to anyone".
That is what the ebay block list is.
We add anyone who gives any hint that they are a problem buyer and we do not care if it costs us sales. We don't care what their feedback is (you do realize that sellers cannot give negatives, right? So, all buyers hypothetically have 100% feedback). We don't care how fast you pay, either. I'd rather sell to a nice person and wait a couple weeks than a problem person who pays right away.
Selling on ebay is hard work and life is too short for us to deal with a problem buyers. We are luckier than a lot of ebay sellers in that we can turn away sales in order to sleep well at night - others can't.
Yup! I agree. On a lighter note, I get blocked from B&M stores all the time for no shoes, and no shirt LOL.
12-19-2018 05:10 AM
@craftladyjg wrote:I have a situation where the Seller appears to have blocked me in error. I believe this because I have had all positive feedback for her and from her. Now I can't contact her because this Seller does not answer questions. I called eBAY and they said the ONLY thing they can do is send a courtesy email which is 'generic'. I have no guarantee that she will even read that email. I see this as a bad policy by eBAY when it won't support the buyer who has a stellar record.
Is it possible that it`s just a glitch or that your seller has opted into the new managed payments system and can`t take paypal? Just a thought.
12-19-2018 05:34 AM
Sorry you found yourself blocked. Sellers do have the ability to exempt someone they blocked previously by placing the user name on their exemption list to allow a purchase. Or they can simply delete you from the block list, fully restoring your buying ability.
Generally, it is hard to block communication thru Ebay Messages from a member who has had transactions with the seller previously. Are you certain you cannot message them?
A final concern—why would you want to do business with a seller who won’t answer questions and has blocked you, in error or otherwise? If a seller can’t be bothered to answer my question, i can’t be bothered to buy from them. Is it a rare or hard to find item?
12-19-2018 05:50 AM
I’m mostly a buyer here now. I buy for my website in a narrow niche. There are several other members who have blocked me even though I have never done anything to deserve it. I’m guessing they consider me a competitor and are mad I can resell their items for a profit
12-19-2018 07:30 AM
When I block a buyer I can assure you it is never in error. Any time someone costs me money, harms my account, approaches with anything other than a friendly tone, or fails the toolhaus test, they are added to my BBL. In fact, the only time I ever made a mistake was when I intended to block someone and typed his user name incorrectly so he was able to purchase a few weeks later.
What I don't understand is why buyers insist on finding out why they were blocked. The buyer mentioned above recently contacted me after claiming a false SNADs to avoid paying return shipping on the last item he was able to buy. He complained about something clearly mentioned and photographed in the listing but in messages said there wasn't enough money to be made for resale. Yes, he is also a competitor. Yes he is aware of the current SNAD metric rate and the cost of losing postage both ways. Yes he knows that eBay will no longer entertain an appeal when the buyer is clearly not being honest when filing a case.
No I did not respond.
12-19-2018 08:37 AM
@hillbillymedia wrote:
@iart wrote:Brick and mortar stores often have a sign that reads "We have the right to refuse service to anyone".
That is what the ebay block list is.
We add anyone who gives any hint that they are a problem buyer and we do not care if it costs us sales. We don't care what their feedback is (you do realize that sellers cannot give negatives, right? So, all buyers hypothetically have 100% feedback). We don't care how fast you pay, either. I'd rather sell to a nice person and wait a couple weeks than a problem person who pays right away.
Selling on ebay is hard work and life is too short for us to deal with a problem buyers. We are luckier than a lot of ebay sellers in that we can turn away sales in order to sleep well at night - others can't.
Yup! I agree. On a lighter note, I get blocked from B&M stores all the time for no shoes, and no shirt LOL.
You're just a casual dresser, that's all!
12-19-2018 08:43 AM
@tellmemama wrote:When I block a buyer I can assure you it is never in error. Any time someone costs me money, harms my account, approaches with anything other than a friendly tone, or fails the toolhaus test, they are added to my BBL. In fact, the only time I ever made a mistake was when I intended to block someone and typed his user name incorrectly so he was able to purchase a few weeks later.
What I don't understand is why buyers insist on finding out why they were blocked. The buyer mentioned above recently contacted me after claiming a false SNADs to avoid paying return shipping on the last item he was able to buy. He complained about something clearly mentioned and photographed in the listing but in messages said there wasn't enough money to be made for resale. Yes, he is also a competitor. Yes he is aware of the current SNAD metric rate and the cost of losing postage both ways. Yes he knows that eBay will no longer entertain an appeal when the buyer is clearly not being honest when filing a case.
No I did not respond.
Joe, absolutely. It is almost impossible for a block to be in error. It just means that something happened that has caused a seller to decide to block. While it is easy to be unblocked, I was referring to the decision made by the seller TO block. That is usually not something that they are going to be inclined to change. Sellers want to sell so they don't block lightly but when they do, it is very intentional.
In your case, you made an error that allowed someone you wanted block to still buy. But the opposite scenario is likely not going to happen, someone getting blocked because of an error like that.
Buyers often do want to know why they are blocked. Generally if they think about it, they could figure out the reason, but the reason is immaterial. Knowing isn't going to make them feel any better or change the situation as it isn't open to debate.
No response was the best response. He knew.
12-19-2018 08:46 AM
You're right, it is hard to block someone if there has been a recent transaction with them, but if some time has elapsed since the last transaction (I don't know how long would qualify), I think it can be done.
Maybe since Paypal and most credit card companies give 180 days for a case to be opened, that would be time line for a block to work. This is just speculation on my part.
12-19-2018 08:48 AM
I presume you mean the communication block because the bidder block works even while the bidder is bidding on an ongoing item.
12-19-2018 09:00 AM
@the*dog*ate*my*tablecloth wrote:I presume you mean the communication block because the bidder block works even while the bidder is bidding on an ongoing item.
Oh, yes, absolutely; thank you for that clarification! I did mean the communication block.
12-19-2018 09:01 AM
@mam98031 wrote:
@castlemagicmemories wrote:
OP, I know you are upset by this seller, but the best thing to do is just shrug it off and move on. There are many other sellers here who may have just what you are looking for.
Once you are blocked, it is almost impossible that you would be unblocked, so go where someone wants your sale, and don't waste your time chasing after someone who doesn't. That is the best thing for you to do.
Hope you find what you are looking for very soon!What? If a seller wants to unblock someone, it is extremely easy to do. Sometimes sellers do make mistakes when adding buyers to their BBL. A simple character mistake in the ID can do it.
Since the OP has good history with this seller, it seems it is worth a try to reach out to them. The OP also says they pay for all their puchases, so it isn't likely that the OP is being block from purchasing due to too many unpaid strikes.
Hopefully it will all work out for the OP. I agree with you. If they can't get in contact and work things out with the seller, maybe they can find what they need elsewhere.
Yes, one different letter can block the wrong person if it happens to be a valid user ID. I don’t block often but once I blocked someone for something then I got a message from another user asking why I blocked them. I said I did not block them but I’d check. Turns out I had blocked them by accident. It’s rare but it can happen. I unblocked and it turned out ok but it could’ve gone very wrong for me.
12-19-2018 09:01 AM
@castlemagicmemories wrote:You're right, it is hard to block someone if there has been a recent transaction with them, but if some time has elapsed since the last transaction (I don't know how long would qualify), I think it can be done.
Maybe since Paypal and most credit card companies give 180 days for a case to be opened, that would be time line for a block to work. This is just speculation on my part.
Yup, this is correct.
Don't remember the time lapse (30 day, 60 day, 90 day) but for the OP an August purchase is beyond the time communication can continue after it is blocked.
12-19-2018 09:02 AM
Errors do happen. We are human you know.