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I guess all the eBay horror stories on eBay are true...

I have had a seller insult me and refuse to sell me an item for no reason. Just randomly wakes up today and chose to sell me an item, ruined my bday and entire weekend and eBay doesnt even do anything at all. 

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@creekcoyote wrote:

@metaniche wrote:

I have had a seller insult me and refuse to sell me an item for no reason. Just randomly wakes up today and chose to sell me an item, ruined my bday and entire weekend and eBay doesnt even do anything at all. 


I guess I also don't see the 'horror' in what happened here.  

You simply didn't get the item that you wanted.

It might be a bit disappointing but that should be about it.

 

 

If you really want to read about horror on this site, go to the seller's board.

 

 


I’m thinking it’s as the op said it’s one of a kind and they likely can’t find it anywhere else.  The seller can’t be forced to sell but I think The ops arbitration is to get the value of what the item is vs what they paid.  For example buyer purchases item worth $200 but seller and buyer agree in a contract to purchase at $100. If the seller doesn’t follow through on the deal the buyer may decide to sue for the difference in the price they paid and the value of the item in the example $100.  

“Birth certificates show that you were born. Death certificates show that you died. Photographs show that you have lived.” -Unknown
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Not if the seller used the out of stock or damaged reason...cant get blood from a turnip, if the item is no longer available.



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@metaniche wrote:

I did nothing man. Person eached out first and basically tried to get me to leave them positive feedback before I even reeived item . Four days after I had paid for the item, on roughly the day I should have been received shipping information. I log-in to see my ordered cancelled with a rude message. Basically just woke up and decided I wasnt "good enough" to be sold the item due to some made up reasons. they literally said:

 

"We canceled your order due to suspension to fraud 
No fees back new account? Sorry we can’t trust you with a grail 
Have a good weekend
Your feedback will process in 2-3 Bussiness days"

 

Then proceeded to sell my one of a kind item to someone else. Even thought these buy/sell contracts are legally binding. I dont understand why this person did this or why they would rather pay 3 times the value in arbitration instead of just keeping their word. This has made me very hesitant about eBay in general after seeing the lack of proper processes or responses to people breaking the law and breaking contracts. Doesnt seem to matter much at eBay, you can even see if they are looking into a situation r get any documentation steps are even being taken. Even Amazon or any other seller would clearly let you track and see issues tht need to be resolved. It amazing that on eBay someone can break these contracts w/o even verification from eBay that they have a proper legal reason to break the law. 


Thank you for providing details here.  Generally, what we see is that the buyer instigated the adverse situation by offering an offensively low price, or asking inappropriate questions or making unreasonable demands, threatening, etc.

So while the buyer is irate and states this happened for no reason, the reasons generally become very apparent.

 

In your case, that doesn't seem to be the case.  You don't post feedback before you receive the item.  I don't know why they feel there was suspicion of fraud.  Perhaps just the reason they told you to chose to end the transaction as I don't think that is a valid reason when they process.  I don't know what no fees back, new account means.  Did you create an account to buy this?  Maybe that is true.  Possibly the someone else paid more for the item than you did?

 

As for investigating, Ebay has a privacy policy so no one knows what is going on with anyone else's account.

 

As far as breaking contracts, yes, this seller did that.  But buyers break contracts all the time through bid retractions and transaction cancellations.  Ebay can no more force a buyer to pay than they can force a seller to sell and ship.  

 

I'm sorry you have been so disappointed here, I have been in your shoed and it is upsetting, but there isn't anything you can do about it.  And you may have dodged a bullet~what with asking for feedback before you received the item.

 

 

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@myangelandmyprincess wrote:

@creekcoyote wrote:

@metaniche wrote:

I have had a seller insult me and refuse to sell me an item for no reason. Just randomly wakes up today and chose to sell me an item, ruined my bday and entire weekend and eBay doesnt even do anything at all. 


I guess I also don't see the 'horror' in what happened here.  

You simply didn't get the item that you wanted.

It might be a bit disappointing but that should be about it.

 

 

If you really want to read about horror on this site, go to the seller's board.

 

 


I’m thinking it’s as the op said it’s one of a kind and they likely can’t find it anywhere else.  The seller can’t be forced to sell but I think The ops arbitration is to get the value of what the item is vs what they paid.  For example buyer purchases item worth $200 but seller and buyer agree in a contract to purchase at $100. If the seller doesn’t follow through on the deal the buyer may decide to sue for the difference in the price they paid and the value of the item in the example $100.  



@myangelandmyprincess wrote:

@creekcoyote wrote:

@metaniche wrote:

I have had a seller insult me and refuse to sell me an item for no reason. Just randomly wakes up today and chose to sell me an item, ruined my bday and entire weekend and eBay doesnt even do anything at all. 


I guess I also don't see the 'horror' in what happened here.  

You simply didn't get the item that you wanted.

It might be a bit disappointing but that should be about it.

 

 

If you really want to read about horror on this site, go to the seller's board.

 

 


I’m thinking it’s as the op said it’s one of a kind and they likely can’t find it anywhere else.  The seller can’t be forced to sell but I think The ops arbitration is to get the value of what the item is vs what they paid.  For example buyer purchases item worth $200 but seller and buyer agree in a contract to purchase at $100. If the seller doesn’t follow through on the deal the buyer may decide to sue for the difference in the price they paid and the value of the item in the example $100.  


That's a good point but I think this is where the scenario will break down.  If the item is one of a kind as the OP states, OP won't be able to prove what the item is worth, ao I don't know that they will be able to award anything other than what the OP paid for this item.  Of course if the new buyer paid more than the OP, that would establish the going rate and perhaps that difference might be awarded to the buyer from the seller~

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@metaniche wrote:

No. American, yeah its ridiculous I have to wait 7 days to leave a negative review but if I wanted toleave positive I can right now. I am beginning arbitration against them through eBay, eBay basically forwarded me all the information to submit a case. This person is going to end up paying 3 times the item plus the arbitration costs,  I honoestly would still rather have the item than even the increased payout. The item is one of a kind and basically priceless. I fail to see how eBay positions the contracts as legally binding then does exactly zero to handle them. 


A seven day delay means he is a Powerseller.  

 

As for "I fail to see how eBay positions the contracts as legally binding then does exactly zero to handle them. ", many sellers have said the same thing.

But again, it comes down to, they can't force either party to complete their obligations, but each receives penalties against their account that may cost them their buying or selling privileges.

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@bonjourami wrote:

Not if the seller used the out of stock or damaged reason...cant get blood from a turnip, if the item is no longer available.


They can’t get the item if it’s gone but they can try to  get the value they lost in the deal 

 

its not about trying to get the item but trying to get The value so another can be bought 

“Birth certificates show that you were born. Death certificates show that you died. Photographs show that you have lived.” -Unknown
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I would tell them./.Good luck with that! LOL..arbitration is pretty much useless.



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@metaniche wrote:

I did nothing man. Person eached out first and basically tried to get me to leave them positive feedback before I even reeived item . Four days after I had paid for the item, on roughly the day I should have been received shipping information. I log-in to see my ordered cancelled with a rude message. Basically just woke up and decided I wasnt "good enough" to be sold the item due to some made up reasons. they literally said:

 

"We canceled your order due to suspension to fraud 
No fees back new account? Sorry we can’t trust you with a grail 
Have a good weekend
Your feedback will process in 2-3 Bussiness days"

 

Then proceeded to sell my one of a kind item to someone else. Even thought these buy/sell contracts are legally binding. I dont understand why this person did this or why they would rather pay 3 times the value in arbitration instead of just keeping their word. This has made me very hesitant about eBay in general after seeing the lack of proper processes or responses to people breaking the law and breaking contracts. Doesnt seem to matter much at eBay, you can even see if they are looking into a situation r get any documentation steps are even being taken. Even Amazon or any other seller would clearly let you track and see issues tht need to be resolved. It amazing that on eBay someone can break these contracts w/o even verification from eBay that they have a proper legal reason to break the law. 


I am even more confused now.  How did you find out that they sold the item to someone else?  Did they message this to you or what? 

 

 

COYOTES RULE!!!

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I'm sorry you weren't able to get the item you wanted.  It's hard to understand why the seller acted this way, but it's good that you didn't leave positive feedback without having received the item.  Don't give up on eBay.  There are better sellers out there. 

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OK...  First off, there is no such thing as "for no reason"  There are only right or wrong reasons.  Second, you parlay cryptic information...You [basically] tell us nothing... And thirdly, if your are able to diserne you've even HAD a nother birthday...It's a good one.

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Sellers get a strike on their account for cancelling a sale for no reason. If you think they are being fraudulent, call eBay and have them take a look 🙂 Best way to stop bad sellers, make sure they don't get away with it.

Happy Belated Birthday. Hope it was great even though it started off so cruddy 🙂
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Yes they sent this is a message during exchange after the cancelled order for no reason. The entire exchange was insane to be honest. 

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Thanks, nah man this has turned me off in general to eBay. I mean you cant even get legal resolution when they claim these are "legally binding", the whole platform is a joke 😉
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A seller  agreeing to sell his item is no more 'legally binding' than all the deadbeat buyers who never pay.

Yes,this is a posting id,I have been selling on Ebay for fifteen years!
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You're most welcome, however, I am a woman 🙂
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