08-12-2020 09:22 AM
So says a buyer who recently purchased 2 sets of kitchen towels. Left me a negative for one and a neutral for the other. Buyer has a history of doing this to other sellers when I looked at her feedback left for sellers and the follow up messages left by sellers to the neg she left them.
Towels are accurately described and I have sold these identical towels in the past to happy buyers who left me glowing feedback.
I contacted this buyer, told her I was sorry she was unhappy with her purchase and politely invited her to return the towels for a full refund. And that I would provide a postage paid return shipping label.
Her message back was abrupt. "I can't be bothered to find something to return them in."
I don't know about anyone else but if I spent $32.00 and didn't like what I received I would certainly find something to put it in and return it.
08-12-2020 09:47 AM
Some people really need to shop in person.
08-12-2020 09:52 AM
Simply reply return for refund. Avoid getting into a word battle.
08-12-2020 09:56 AM
I agree, some people have difficulty buying online and should shop in person at brick and mortar stores.
I don't understand this buyer. She apparently likes the towels enough to keep them yet leaves a neg and a neutral.
Her history shows she's bought numerous items on eBay in the past few months, leaves negs and neutrals but apparently does not return the items for a refund. Other sellers stated she refused to return their items for a refund too.
08-12-2020 10:06 AM
Buyer is simply hoping to keep the item as well as get a refund or partial refund. The last few months this type of thing has really gotten out of hand with buyers. I've had more buyers in the last 3 months complain or ask for refund and then never ship the item back then I have in the prior 14 YEARS! Some buyers complain regardless and that's to be expected but if buyers are going to be forced into shopping online due to Covid then ebay either needs to do away completely with the feedback system and simply go by their own metrics for sellers or they need to bring back buyer feedback. There simply is no other solution or it's going to quickly turn into the wild, wild west in online shopping.
08-12-2020 10:11 AM
Block the buyer so you never have to deal with them again.
Laziness is no excuse for not returning an item. Why not use the original box it came in?
Online shopping is not always as convenient as shopping in a store.
08-12-2020 11:06 AM
@b86fieroYou have super high glowing feedback. Kudos. Thankfully, getting this negative feedback and comment for a seller like you isn't as bad as it would impact most other sellers.
However (just some constructive criticism to help you), what I think you need some work on is the reply you provided for the feedback. I believe a large seller such as yourself would reply in a more general and gentle manner. Believe me when I say I've been where you are many many many times. Despite times that I get ticked off at what buyers try with me, I always attempt to sound as polite and helpful as possible.
One of my canned replies for a buyer like this is "Sorry you don't like it. You can always just message me & return/refund. Thanks." It shows potential buyers that you're still willing to help regardless of what you suspect the buyer of doing... so they know you handle issues very well and would be more prone to shop from you.
If you want to be more direct and call out the buyer (your choice), you can at least do it in a more friendly manner. Try something like "Sorry you don't like it. But I can only issue refunds if you send the item back to me."
08-12-2020 11:11 AM
Related topic. I recently had a buyer who is claiming they didn't get the item but tracking shows delivered and demanding a refund. I told them to check with their PO because they scanned it as delivered... maybe they placed it somewhere else for them.
Buyer's reply is classic: "I don't have time going around checking with people. You don't seem to understand that people that buy online obviously don't have any time to waste getting it from the store. So why would I even want to spend any time asking someone about the package? If you don't care about your buyers and don't refund me, I'll take this up with ebay."
08-12-2020 11:55 AM
This same thing happened to me a few months ago. I also checked the feedback left for others" and noticed the same pattern. I immediately opened a case with eBay and provided them with all of the details (all correspondence with the buyer, the pattern I noticed with the buyers feedback to other sellers, etc.). It took about 2-3 days but eBay support did look into the matter and in the end determined it was a violation of their feedback policy. The negative feedback was removed.
It may be worth your time to open a case if you feel the buyer is trying to take advantage of the system and have the evidence to support it....basically trying to get free product.
Good luck. Stay well.
08-12-2020 01:28 PM
<sarcasm>You handled this all wrong.
You are supposed to approach the buyer, cowering and quivering, begging for a feedback revision in exchange for a partial refund.</sarcasm>
Yep, this is what the buyer expects, because it WORKS, and works well, because far too many sellers cave in to keep their feedback "clean".
I had one once, left the exact same negative "ripoff" for dozens and dozens of sellers, and he had a metric krapton of feedback revisions. I ignored it. Didn't hurt me a bit.
08-12-2020 04:35 PM
I agree with bigdeals.etc on the reply OP left to buyer's FB .....a little ouch! But OPs never had the experience of a Neg fb!! Impecable record...yah that buyer sounds like a putz hope you blocked them!
08-13-2020 10:20 AM
For what it's worth, this buyer messaged me before she bought the first set of towels asking if I would take less money for them. My profit margin is pretty slim so I very politely declined.
I should have gone with my gut instinct and blocked her at that time.
I became a bit concerned when she came back and bought 2 sets of towels a few days later. I expected to receive another message asking for a partial refund and I would be dealing with a return at that point.
I do not issued partial refunds as I feel it encourages buyers to get in the habit of asking for partial refunds for everything they buy.
So now she won't return them and my feedback looks bad.
08-13-2020 12:19 PM
Yeah, there're buyers who will show discord no matter what. And their motivated purpose could be of many reasons. They could possibly have a different account as a seller, and being a seller they may have received x numbers of negative feedbacks due to their manner of how they conduct their business, and being their manner might reflect their nature, thus, leaving others negative feedback will give them a sense of retribution and or self-satisfaction.
And there're other reasons, along with what has already been mentioned: money pinching.
Now, with the above said, I want to note something: I''ve been an eBay member for 14 years and I had never left negative feedback to any sellers until a week or so ago.
This is why I did such:
The item was listed as new (other) other being opened box. The description of the item was basic and merely repeated the name of the product. Well, when I received the item: it was very clear the item was not new and was missing its software.
Okay, no probs, ah, it's used but it's in good condition and I'll just download the software, come to find out, there ensued the problem, the software required an activation key, in which, one would have to purchase, which costed the same as purchasing the device.
I contacted the seller, and informed them of the issue, I was very polite and gave them the benefit of doubt that they might not have been aware of the item missing its software.
This is the response I received from them: request a partial refund or a return request, yep, that was the entirety of their response.
I returned an email to that response by saying I am very understanding and again, I am assuming you were not aware of the software missing. And I made no demands in any way shape or form to them, I simply said do what you can, but don't offer an amount that will cause you to lose money, for I know what it's like to be a seller.
A day an half passed by, before they responded and this was their response.
Make a return request... Yep, that was the entirety of their responding email.
Well, that responding email was about one hour too late, I'd already left them feedback for the way in which they conducted their business. And to sum it up, I considered that seller's customer service to be extremely poor and their business manner to be quite incompetence.
So with that said, not all buyers are wrong in their choice of reflections towards any particular seller, not to say that is the case in which this thread is addressing.
And by the way, I simply purchased another device from a more reliable seller, a week later. And obviously I will never, ever deal with that incompetence seller again.
08-13-2020 01:07 PM
Your buyer is chronically unhappy with her purchases, yet continues to shop. She is probably fishing for free stuff.
I would contact eBay. Being that the buyer only did a product review, they will likely remove her feedback.