What yall think?

[aandrinventory]

So my boyfriend and I resell together and the account is in his name, im left to start from zero again. is it fairr? I know, I know Im a idiot. Im so beside myself. He doesnt seem to see that its unfair...should I get more of the inventory at the very least? let me know your thoughts guys. I will start again and honestly it kinda gives me the burning desire to just outsell the crap outta him!! lol this is no longer a and r inventory. just R....ugh!!!! 

[fern*wood]

This sounds like a personal issue, but are you saying you split up and that's why you have to start over with a new ID?   I would think you are entitled to all of your own inventory and he keeps his. 

[toysaver]

Look on the bright side, if the account is in his name the IRS tax responsibility is his.  

[12345jamesstamps]

Having separate is a good idea. That means when and if a 1099K comes along you both don't argue who's going to get stuck to declare with that to add to their yearly tax returns and who the other one has to pay in cash to the one who added it on their income tax.

[buyselljack2016]

take it all 🤣

in a split up doesn't the woman get everything 🤣

[powell-memorabilia]

I suppose that you could take him to small claims court and have a judge decide on how to split the inventory.  Comingling finances when you are single isn't a great idea, as you have learned.    

[femmefan1946]

@toysaver 

Revenge is sweet-- saccharine sweet. --Anne of Green Gables.

Kick him in the wallet.

But every woman should have her own bank account. (As should every man.)

[soh.maryl]

When you ask for advice or help here, you need to give ALL the relevant information.

So I gather you and the boyfriend/selling partner have split up?

Seems to me  like a personal issue rather than an eBay issue.

[dhbookds]

Be grateful you aren't trying to split a house/kids/friends...........

[lakefor94]

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@dhbookds wrote:

Be grateful you aren't trying to split a house/kids/friends...........

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Hey, there could be a cat or a goldfish. Should not be taken lightly.

[byrd69er]

No. Sometimes they get nothing close to their thinking.

The best laid plans of mice and woman.

Oops.

You didn't want to do that.   Harry Enfield

[caldreamer]

Well, the goods news is that because EBAY account is in his name (he will have all the tax liability from the sales).   The bad news is that he wants to keep the inventory (because you co-mingled funds it will be hard to sort out who purchased what items). 

Consider yourself lucky you didn't purchase a house together...he sounds like a jerk.   Now you are free to establish your own path and see where life leads you.   You go girl!

[powell-memorabilia]

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@caldreamer wrote:

Well, the goods news is that because EBAY account is in his name (he will have all the tax liability from the sales).   The bad news is that he wants to keep the inventory (because you co-mingled funds it will be hard to sort out who purchased what items). 

Consider yourself lucky you didn't purchase a house together...he sounds like a jerk.   Now you are free to establish your own path and see where life leads you.   You go girl!

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We don’t know any of the details, so hard to say that he is a “jerk.”  Maybe he funded the inventory purchases.  Maybe she funded inventory but he paid the rent every month.  Maybe she did something unforgivable.  Maybe he is a jerk, maybe she is a nightmare, maybe it it just a run of the mill breakup.  Who knows?

[4pawsup*]

I am sorry for you but i would not comment one way or the other on the split.

[lakefor94]

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@powell-memorabilia wrote:

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@caldreamer wrote:

Well, the goods news is that because EBAY account is in his name (he will have all the tax liability from the sales).   The bad news is that he wants to keep the inventory (because you co-mingled funds it will be hard to sort out who purchased what items). 

Consider yourself lucky you didn't purchase a house together...he sounds like a jerk.   Now you are free to establish your own path and see where life leads you.   You go girl!

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We don’t know any of the details, so hard to say that he is a “jerk.”  Maybe he funded the inventory purchases.  Maybe she funded inventory but he paid the rent every month.  Maybe she did something unforgivable.  Maybe he is a jerk, maybe she is a nightmare, maybe it it just a run of the mill breakup.  Who knows?

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I am only concerned for the pets.