10-10-2024 09:18 AM - edited 10-10-2024 09:20 AM
Got an order the other day and because I’m cautious I sent it with a signature confirmation slip. This morning I got a message, as I expected, from the buyer saying they “forgot” to add their apartment number, USPS is returning it to me, but they still want it so can they pay me for shipping it again. I just find it hard to believe you buy a $50 item and forget your apartment number and are willing to spend on shipping again, I don’t know what to do? I’m assuming I will lose my own money on shipping fees now as well? Just a sad feeling I’m going to get screwed by eBay on this deal. Also the buyer has 1 feedback.
By the way I’ve been a member of eBay since 1999 and have 307 transactions with no negative feedback. I just started to sell more because I need help to pay for my daughter’s school trip to another country and right away I feel defeated 😞
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you
M
10-10-2024 09:24 AM
When it comes back, refund minus the shipping costs. Then the buyer can purchase it again with the correct address.
10-10-2024 09:45 AM
So I wait until it’s returned then cancel and it will allow me to refund minus shipping? I did have it listed as No Returns because the item was NWT and as I said I just don’t trust people particularly with no feedback. I did pay my own money for the signature confirmation slip but if I’m only out $3 that’s better than $11.
Also what should I tell the buyer? Should I explain the situation above that I need for it to be returned, I’ll cancel minus shipping, and I can re-list if they want to purchase again?
Thank you for the help.
10-10-2024 09:54 AM
10-10-2024 10:13 AM - edited 10-10-2024 10:20 AM
@m.ant wrote:Got an order the other day and because I’m cautious I sent it with a signature confirmation slip. This morning I got a message, as I expected, from the buyer saying they “forgot” to add their apartment number, USPS is returning it to me, but they still want it so can they pay me for shipping it again. I just find it hard to believe you buy a $50 item and forget your apartment number and are willing to spend on shipping again, I don’t know what to do? I’m assuming I will lose my own money on shipping fees now as well? Just a sad feeling I’m going to get screwed by eBay on this deal. Also the buyer has 1 feedback.
By the way I’ve been a member of eBay since 1999 and have 307 transactions with no negative feedback. I just started to sell more because I need help to pay for my daughter’s school trip to another country and right away I feel defeated 😞
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you
M
How can USPS not know what apartment the buyer lives in?
Surely buyer gets other mail with his apartment number indicated.
Sounds to me like delivery was attempted, but the buyer cannot be bothered to go pick it up at the post office.
How did the buyer communicate this information to you? eBay message?
Does tracking show that the package is being returned to you?
From what you have shared, something does not add up.
Nor am I sure that I'd deduct shipping fees upon a return, but that's another story.
First see if you get the return and it's the same item that you sent.
10-10-2024 10:54 AM
I would wait till I get it back, then block the 'buyer' and put the item in "Drafts" for a week or so.
You are either:
Dealing with a rip-off, or
an idiot.
My rule in life, poker and eBay is ... "Fold early, fold often."
Who needs the kvetch?
10-10-2024 11:06 AM
It's all part of business. When you receive the item back just issue a refund "wrong address" and relist it for higher to recoup your shipping cost. Then tell the buyer to make sure they edit the address to where it shows there apartment number. Then when that is done then the buyer purchases the item. Make sure everything is correct and you can confirm with the buyer before shipment as well. Had this done many of times to me as a seller. The buyer might have move to that apartment and either forgot to put the apartment number or didn't know they had to in the first place. It's not hard to believe it's actually very common mistake.
10-10-2024 11:32 AM
@bonanza125 wrote:It's all part of business. When you receive the item back just issue a refund "wrong address" and relist it for higher to recoup your shipping cost. Then tell the buyer to make sure they edit the address to where it shows there apartment number. Then when that is done then the buyer purchases the item. Make sure everything is correct and you can confirm with the buyer before shipment as well. Had this done many of times to me as a seller. The buyer might have move to that apartment and either forgot to put the apartment number or didn't know they had to in the first place. It's not hard to believe it's actually very common mistake.
The buyer's error of not putting the complete correct address shouldn't be part of the seller's "cost of doing business." Although the seller isn't obligated to refund the buyer for the incorrect address, he certainly should refund the portion of the buyer's payment but retaining his own costs.
And if I were the seller, this buyer would be on my BBL.
10-10-2024 11:43 AM - edited 10-10-2024 11:45 AM
With an Undeliverable address, eBay does not require you to refund anything at all.
I agree that refunding the selling price but not the shipping cost (including the added cost of Signature Confirmation) is reasonable.
EBay will back you on that action.
Then relist, allow the customer to bid, and if they buy, check that address again before shipping.
I did have it listed as No Returns because the item was NWT
Even with a No Returns policy a seller is allowed to demand the return before refunding.
A No Returns policy is allowed (not a good idea in my opinion but allowed)
We cannot have a No Refunds policy.
10-10-2024 12:30 PM
We wouldn't send signature confirmation without the buyer's approval - especially for a $50 item. This is probably what messed you up. The carrier probably couldn't easily tell the apt number and so simply returned it. Or maybe the buyer simply wasn't home. It's not a part of the deal that the buyer has to waste their time going to the post office.
10-10-2024 01:29 PM
We are all human and we all make mistakes, some are really simple mistakes that most times they would have caught. It is sad that we are always on the lookout for someone trying to scam us that we forget sometimes people just make honest mistakes.
One caution I would give you is to NEVER ship anything with a signature required unless you have informed the buyer that is what you are doing. Never do it as a SURPRISE, that will certainly cause some upset buyers and understandably so.
I'm unsure how you think this buyer would be committing a scam. Sellers are protected when the tracking shows the item to be undeliverable. So if the buyer were to file an INR, they would not win, you would.
As for the buyer wanting you to reship the item, you need to tell them that once you get the item back and it is in the same shape as you sent it, you will be happy to reship the item at their expense. You can invoice the buyers through PayPal as Ebay does not have a vehicle in which to do this.
The amount you invoice them should me the amount you originally charged them for shipping PLUS the fees you will be paying to PayPal.
Then when you go to reship the item, DO NOT create the shipping label in Ebay as the new tracking could over-write the original tracking and you do not want those details to get lost. Go to PayPal and do the shipping from the transaction there. Oh, make sure they got their address correct this time.
You will be protected by Ebay on this with these steps.
10-10-2024 01:43 PM
@m.ant wrote:So I wait until it’s returned then cancel and it will allow me to refund minus shipping? I did have it listed as No Returns because the item was NWT and as I said I just don’t trust people particularly with no feedback. I did pay my own money for the signature confirmation slip but if I’m only out $3 that’s better than $11.
Also what should I tell the buyer? Should I explain the situation above that I need for it to be returned, I’ll cancel minus shipping, and I can re-list if they want to purchase again?
Thank you for the help.
NO, do not ever "cancel" a transaction that was actually shipped. That is a specific process for specific reasons, but this isn't one of those reasons.
When you refund someone, Ebay refunds your fees, but in this case you would not refund the shipping fees. So if you decide to refund the buyer, you would refund them the Product amount less your non refundable fees. There is no reason for this transaction to cost you money. Heck Ebay wouldn't even force you to make a refund of any kind to this buyer, but I never advise that.
A No Return Policy does not protect you from INRs or INADs. The ONLY thing it will protect you from is Properly Filed Buyer Remorse returns. If a buyer files an INAD because there was a problem with the item, you would need to process that INAD. To deny it would, in time, end up with Ebay forcing you to refund, not refund your FVFs and give you a Defect on your Seller Dashboard. So make sure you learn what you can and can't do with a No return Policy. Do NOT assume you are immune to having to process INADs.
First find out if your buyer will still want the item. If they do, let them know you will notify with when the item is returned to you. I personally would not do a new transaction of ebay as all the risks now come back to you as you had in the original transaction up until the tracking showed it was undeliverable. The new transaction would also allow them to leave feedback.
IMHO I would encourage you to process it as I stated in my previous post. It is the safest way for the seller.
10-10-2024 01:45 PM
Some apartment complexes have a handful or units, others have thousands.
10-10-2024 01:47 PM
@iart wrote:We wouldn't send signature confirmation without the buyer's approval - especially for a $50 item. This is probably what messed you up. The carrier probably couldn't easily tell the apt number and so simply returned it. Or maybe the buyer simply wasn't home. It's not a part of the deal that the buyer has to waste their time going to the post office.
I agree. The OP got lucky on that part of this transaction. That could have really caused them problems. The bad address was kind of a favor in this case. The carrier didn't have the apartment number as the buyer admitted they didn't give it on their ship to address.
10-10-2024 01:54 PM
"The buyer's error of not putting the complete correct address shouldn't be part of the seller's "cost of doing business." Although the seller isn't obligated to refund the buyer for the incorrect address, he certainly should refund the portion of the buyer's payment but retaining his own costs. And if I were the seller, this buyer would be on my BBL. "
Well yes I would ask the buyer to pay for the extra shipping cost it took to ship the item for the first time when relisted to recoup the cost. For my book work for taxes I refund the full amount for that. I do "Free Shipping" so I just add that amount to the cost when relisted. You have a position where you wouldn't deal with the buyer and want to block them in this particular situation. I don't do that and it works out for me and the buyer just fine.