@fbusoni wrote:
@rekha27 wrote:
Thank you everyone for your quick responses! Looks like nothing can be done in current scenario, so I will take it as a lesson learn and will move on .
thank you again for your support!
Just make sure you block the buyer who is dishonest and not someone with whom you ever want to do business again. regards
The SELLER made a mistake, the buyer didn't scam anything. Like most posters here, you jump to conclusions and think buyers are the devil. The buyer is under no obligation to send anything back. Morally, maybe they should. However, no one even knows if the buyers knows they got a label. Most buyers do not live here or pay attention to half the spam messages eBay sends out. So it could be likely they have no knowledge of the label.
If anything, I think eBay should make a "blocked list" of sellers that buyers can add sellers onto they don't want to deal with again. Its a PITA trying to keep a handwritten list of pee poor sellers and checking it before you buy anything here. Besides, sellers can have multiple accounts, adding to the difficulty of NOT buying from some ding dong that you don't want to buy from.
Most people on these boards think buyers are the majority of the problem. I can assure you, it goes both ways, pretty much equally. I have had more problems with sellers then I EVER did buyers. So many here are divas and think the world should kiss their shoes. I say, I hope buyers just stop buying from these clown type sellers and they get to dust off their junk. Their heirs can call in a roll off dumpster in which to toss that inventory.
You are a nobody when you punch a clock. The company does not care about you, you are just another brick in the wall. As a seller here, you are NOT a brand. No one cares about you. Not eBay, not buyers. Your purpose here is to sell and make money. No buyer, and certainly not eBay, care about a seller's "feelings" or their need to feel validated. It's about buying and selling junk. This is not a therapy session. You sell widgets. You are seeking people to buy your widgets. Some buyers are great, some are not. Some sellers are great, others are not.
Most of the time when a seller adds a buyer to their block list, it's about their own ego. And that also is shooting themselves in the foot. That's ok in my book. Let those with the wrong attitude self destruct their own business. They aren't suited to run a business anyway. Most people aren't in fact, which is why most fail in 5 years.
mam98031 • Volunteer Community Member • Buyer/Seller since 1999
