eBay

I've had someone from out of state buy and pay for a wall hanging that I had for sale, but I had it for sale as a local pickup only. It's too heavy and require too much packing to keep from breaking. I don't see any place on ebay to refund the money....

I'm a new seller. Someone has placed a bid on a ring I'm selling. How do I accept their bid? The auction isn't over, but I'm happy to accept their bid. What are the steps that I need to do?