what you all think about message received?

[incrediblefinds199]

so i sent out a offer and a person accepted. i just sent to watchers. but there was no note attached but got this message few hours after. i did not get payment yet. it mentions fed ex i dont have it in my listings nor is it a option, but i do in my ebay store description, it says i dont ship fedex.  just due to the fact its 40 mins one way to get to a proper drop off, the store in a local mall does have a drop off but its tough to get people and is timely and also they do not take over 20lbs packages. i like them as they do the best job to deliver to my house. this item i am making like 10 dollars. so not worth the work and scary feedback left for others and even some positive feedback is bad left for buyer.  i haven't said anything yet. but my gut tells me this is going to be a hack job on me. 

Hi how are you doing hope good I am contacting you because I would like the purchase to be shipped this way and this way for a reason I would like it to be packed in a oversized box the radio covered in bubble wrap and Styrofoam peanut on bottom sides and on top and shipped FedEx and the only reason I am asking of this is because usps just throwing the product around on and of trucks no consideration for the consumer at all have been purchasing boombox for a little time from eBay now and believe or not all most all of them I received were badly damaged in pieces and even the mounts that hold it together were broken and not even worth fixing so if you agree on the way I would like to receive this product text me back and let me know will purchase tomorrow if you agree thanks

[wastingtime101]

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@incrediblefinds199 wrote:

 scary feedback left for others and even some positive feedback is bad left for buyer. 

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May I introduce you to the Blocked Buyer List?

[incrediblefinds199]

obviously! he is in route there. But i can't predict this was going to happen, but i can't see who the offers are going out to when sending offers to watchers. 

[mtgraves7984]

Kneejerk reaction: Don't tell me how to ship.

Gut reaction: They haven't paid yet, but will after you text them about the shipping procedure?

[buyselljack2016]

I know that some do, but I do not as a rule generally send offers. I think most of my watchers are other sellers.

Also the IPR is lost when an offer is sent.

If I decide I will take less, I just lower the price.

and I don't "text" anyone.

[wastingtime101]

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@incrediblefinds199 wrote:

 But i can't predict this was going to happen, but i can't see who the offers are going out to when sending offers to watchers. 

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If he formally accepted the offer then tell him you can't accommodate any special shipping requests and let him know you can cancel the transaction. Then report him to eBay for making demands not included in the listing.

Like @buyselljack2016, I don't send offers. I'll lower my price or put something on sale if I want to go a discounted route.

[emerald_door]

"I'm sorry, but I'm unable to ship by FedEx."

[1tuna]

I think the buyer saw fedex and glossed over it

I do not ship by UPS or Fedex either but I am not going to mention it in my terms of sale

why mention fedex at all.   mentioning something means certain things to certain people

maybe they thought they could change your mind when they wanted you to text them

[fab_finds4u]

I'd reply back you didn't  see their message and you only ship using the method in the listing so you are cancelling. 

If they wanted to NEGOTIATE the shipping method  that should've been done beforehand.

[friskya]

Your "buyer" needs to find a friend who speaks english as their first language to double check the output from google translate. 

Up to you, but I don't suspect your "buyer" is going to be worth the sale. 

[incrediblefinds199]

it doesn't say it in my listing, it only says it in my store profile