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Pretty sure buyer is trying to scam me but don’t know next steps

I’m new to eBay selling, only about a month now but I have already completed almost 150 transactions. So here’s my issue. I had a buyer send an offer for a vacuum. I saw it when I had just woke up before coffee and saw LA and assumed it was for someone in california (for context im in PA). I sent buyer a counter offer for $8 more and explained in the counter offer that shipping would be pretty high on a vacuum to CA and the $8 more price was my lowest I could go. 

Buyer purchased item at counter offer price. When I got the address I realized immediately that in my early morning haze I had misinterpreted LA for Louisiana which obviously wouldn’t be as much to ship. Me being the nice person that I am sent them a message saying I was half asleep this morning and explained the mix up, even stating that I didn’t realize they were in Louisiana and thought it was LA California, and then refunded the $8 price difference since the shipping wouldn’t be as bad. Buyer messaged me back a nice message saying thank you with a smiley face. 

Fast forward to the next day I now get a message from the buyer saying that they put the wrong address and that they actually need it shipped to Texas…. I had already dropped this package off the day before at FedEx. 

Now a few things. I literally said to them yesterday that the reason for the $8 refund was because the lived in Louisiana (both in the actual refund message and in a direct chat) and the buyer replied to that  with a thank you and smiley face. But now they live in Texas after I dropped it off at FedEx?!?! 

So my question is should I just pay to have the package redirected back to me and refund the buyer? I know I shouldn’t redirect it to them from reading horror stories on here. And if I do can I deduct the redirect fee and the shipping fee from the item? Or should I just redirect back to me and refund fully and eat the almost $50 in fees and shipping? Thanks in advance for any help! 

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Pretty sure buyer is trying to scam me but don’t know next steps

"I had already dropped this package off the day before at FedEx.  . . . . . But now they live in Texas after I dropped it off at FedEx?!?!"

Did you send the item to the address provided by eBay for this buyer?   Yes? 
Your work is done.   The package is literally out of your hands.  

Do not spend any more money, or time, trying to stop or redirect the delivery from FedEx. 

Today, you can add that person to your Blocked Buyers List.  

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Pretty sure buyer is trying to scam me but don’t know next steps

The scam comes from the address change. Ebay will only Honor shipping disputes if shipping was to a address ebay gave you or the one the buyer gave ebay. Never ship outside of that address.

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Pretty sure buyer is trying to scam me but don’t know next steps

This is a duplicate post.  @melindaanne  There are a number of answers in the same post on the Selling Board. 

This one goes to Eleven - Nigel Tufnel

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eBay Seller since 1996

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