@tori_729 wrote:
That's a good way to look at it!
However I did explicitly say in the listing that if they wanted tracking, they would need to pay extra to get it. And when the buyer messaged me about their request, I replied with that indication and they NEVER got back to me. Maybe they were mad at me but they never ever ever directly messaged me after that initial shipping request and that rubs me the wrong way because they didn't try to work anything out with me. Maybe I should have just went ahead and shipped with tracking even though my listing said it didn't come w/ it but looking back I probably should have sent them the message, waited a day and then cancelled the whole thing because they didn't communicate with me.
Maybe they are getting back at me for shipping it w/o tracking and a day later than they wanted it to be shipped BUT they never tried to resolve anything with me personally.
I admire and respect people who try to work things out with me through messages or email. I will give those people more priority and benefit of the doubt. People who request things and then leave it and then open a case in Ebay w/o contacting me first THEN proceeding to not say ANYTHING else in the case - despite my apologies and pleas to wait a little longer/ check the address etc. THAT irks me like nothing else! So yeah, I'm a little jaded by that. 😉
You demand that the buyer pay for something that is your responsibility to pay for, and you expect them to work with you?
SMH...some sellers set themselves up for bad buyers...
