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Hi! I have a question… Today I had a buyer leave me their Instagram contact information in a message. Also, in that message they asked me for more photographs and a video of a necklace that I’m selling. What do other sellers do? Do you just completely ignored this buyer put them on the blocked buyer list and move on or do you answer the buyers questions and just ignored that they gave you their contact information? I’m curious how other sellers handle this? I really don’t want to get in trouble with eBay so I am looking for other peoples experiences with the situation. Thank you.

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Block, and then run over that > way.

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I am reminded of this cartoon:

 

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Is that really a thing? People take your pictures and put them on their site to sell using you basically as a supplier? Are they doing that so that they don’t have to pay for product they just wait until they get paid for your item and then buy it from you? That’s a new one that I hadn’t heard of. Wow! People can be such dirtbags!

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That's an old one.   Against-the-rules drop shipping is old school scamerooni. 


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@skullcounty_99 wrote:

Is that really a thing? People take your pictures and put them on their site to sell using you basically as a supplier? Are they doing that so that they don’t have to pay for product they just wait until they get paid for your item and then buy it from you? That’s a new one that I hadn’t heard of. Wow! People can be such dirtbags!


This is a thing. 

 

I ordered a new GPS from one web site showing and advertising item is new.  It took over two weeks to arrive.  I received a used item from a totally different person.  There was a SD Card inside the unit that had video of a trip around town showing the city and address of where vehicle parked and even tag numbers of other vehicles in the yard.  I confronted seller and they stated they were out of stock and instead of having me wait they ordered it from their supplier but did not know that the item had been retuned.

 

They just made up the story.  I had already searched eBay for the exact unit and save a few.  Since the serial number was present on some of the eBay offerings I checked and it had the same number as one on eBay that sold a few days earlier.

 

I had a nice vehicle for sale with very nice pictures.  A person contacted me wanting the serial number.  They were supposedly an hour away and did not want to come look at vehicle.  I offered to bring it to them but they did not want to do this either.  They said their friend owned a dealership and would do a Car Fax before they looked at it.  I offered to bring it by the Dealership as I would be in town so the Car Dealer could look it over.  They did not want to do this either, they just wanted the serial number.  I did not give it to them.

 

It was a scam, my photos showed up on another web site with the vehicle priced way below value.  The goal is to get some unsuspecting person to send a down payment and then you can never get in contact with them again.  The vehicle seems more legitimate if the serial number is provided.

 

 

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@lamber9347 wrote:

It began more generational but more and more 'boomers' are turning to videos. Tik Tok is the major cause of this, society is becoming more accustomed to watching short video clips rather than reading descriptions and scrolling through photos.  Notice how the majority of social media is turning to videos. People are preferring to watch a video clip which they can then show that video clip to a friend. Even eBay is beginning to push videos on sellers. Mobile phones are becoming the primary manner in which buyers now purchase. I'm not saying I am in agreement; I'm simply pointing out what is happening and apparently what is to come....


This is true, but context is everything. 


“The illegal we do immediately, the unconstitutional takes a little longer.” - Henry Kissinger

"Wherever law ends, tyranny begins" -John Locke
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@skullcounty_99 wrote:

Is that really a thing? People take your pictures and put them on their site to sell using you basically as a supplier? Are they doing that so that they don’t have to pay for product they just wait until they get paid for your item and then buy it from you? That’s a new one that I hadn’t heard of. Wow! People can be such dirtbags!


It's a sort of hybrid practice, with concepts drawn from retail arbitrage and from dropshipping.  It is risky, and it is not for the faint of heart or for generalists.  But lots of people who know just enough about it to get themselves into serious trouble are giving it a whirl.  (By, the way, it is against eBay policy for an eBay seller to engage in this practice.)

 

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