10-31-2019 11:44 AM
I still don't understand the logic of ebay with this. A buyer bought an underwear shaper (a thong no less) and waited until the 29th day to file a return as doesn't fit. I received the item back... smelling like sweat and perfume. Reddish stains on the underwear that I don't want to guess what it is. It's also missing all of it's bra straps (1 pair of clear, and 1 pair of black).
I took photos and was about to file the usual 50% retention and throw the underwear away. But I had to call ebay for something else today, so I might as well mention this one and ask what their logic was in this case with only keeping 50%.
Basically the buyer was able to get a shaper rental for a month, and keep 2 pairs of bra straps for half the price of the shaper itself. The agent pushed me to a specialist and he just said that I'm allowed to keep half of the payment. Gee, that'll show 'em huh. I told him that I hope no one buys a $1000 iphone and returns a brick just to get the phone for $500. He says that's entirely different because the buyer returned the correct item to me. I said it might as well be a different item.
Is ebay suggesting I sell this month long used reddish stained thong shaper underwear that's missing it's straps for 50% off???
10-31-2019 11:52 AM
No way would I sell underwear online lol
As to your extra special return, find the right place to list it and you could make a fortune.
Please excuse me while I go toss up my lunch...
10-31-2019 11:59 AM
I understand the aggravation........but several months ago, you would have had to refund the whole thing..........
10-31-2019 12:02 PM
@southern*sweet*tea wrote:
As to your extra special return, find the right place to list it and you could make a fortune.
Since I don't think we can type out other selling channels here... PM me with the site you are referring to sell this.
I've been already thinking about it, but this incident pushed me over the edge to get rid of my current stock and never sell underwear on ebay again. Thanks ebay policy!
10-31-2019 12:02 PM
You picked the right day to tell this horror story. Happy Halloween everybody!
10-31-2019 12:15 PM
There is no way I'd ever sell underwear on eBay. At least you were able to refund half and unfortunately received soiled underwear. Some buyers come up with strange excuses don't they?
10-31-2019 01:20 PM
eBay's return policy says that returns must be in original saleable condition. I would have sent pictures to the buyer, explained that they were not in original condition and refused the refund outright.
Yes, he could have appealed but if you made your statement strong enough and blunt enough he would have to have super Cajones to push the issue beyond that.
10-31-2019 01:46 PM
@richard1rst wrote:
Yes, he could have appealed but if you made your statement strong enough and blunt enough he would have to have super Cajones to push the issue beyond that.
He? Well, maybe, I guess . . .
10-31-2019 01:58 PM - edited 10-31-2019 02:00 PM
@eleanor*rigby wrote:
He? Well, maybe, I guess . . .
I am of the generation that was taught in grammar class that when the gender of a creature was unknown the masculine was always used. The OP never mentioned a gender. OK the OP mention bra straps (could have bought them as a gift for his lady), but I have seen some men with boobs too . (we derisively call then manboobs). Hot in Cleveland did an episode about it once. They really had fun with some atrocious puns. (she) Where you buy your clothes? (he) Oh, I just get them off the rack.
It is just too late in life for me to get used to the whole he/she/it mumbo jumbo.
Don't worry, my generation will fade soon enough and the Politically Correct can take over the language.
10-31-2019 02:05 PM
I had a Walmart person tell me that the worse return that she had was an item very much like yours...soiled and all...says it is a rather common occurrence. I just stood there with an expression on my face that I'm sure needed no words...
What on earth is wrong with people? Not embarrassed?...Talk about can't shame the shameless...
I just cannot imagine what their personal life is like...🙄
10-31-2019 02:15 PM
@richard1rst wrote:
@eleanor*rigby wrote:
He? Well, maybe, I guess . . .I am of the generation that was taught in grammar class that when the gender of a creature was unknown the masculine was always used. The OP never mentioned a gender. OK the OP mention bra straps (could have bought them as a gift for his lady), but I have seen some men with boobs too . (we derisively call then manboobs). Hot in Cleveland did an episode about it once. They really had fun with some atrocious puns. (she) Where you buy your clothes? (he) Oh, I just get them off the rack.
It is just too late in life for me to get used to the whole he/she/it mumbo jumbo.
Don't worry, my generation will fade soon enough and the Politically Correct can take over the language.
...creature...yes! I like that a whole lot more...we won't called this "thing" it, he or she...we really should call this thing "a creature..."
...I don't want to associate and offend all of the known living things by this particular creature...we should leave this thing in a category all it's own...and hopefully one day, the thing will become extinct.
10-31-2019 04:05 PM
I also am an underwear seller and am thinking about switching venues as eBay can't seem to undrestand the sanitary nature of this business. I had one a couple weeks ago open a remorse return for item doesn't fit. Then wrote that they don't fit her right and wish they did. Called eBay as in the past they would just close the remorse returns out if they admit to trying on underwear as you can't technically return used underwear. Well, starting October 1st, eBay no longer does that. They made no announcements about it because they say it's an internal change. Pretty much they just aren't paying the customer out any longer for returning used drawers. So I had to accept the return. And I got back not only used underwear but she actually threw all the packaging away and just shoved them in the envelope, very strange. Thank you eBay for forcing me to take back some used underwear. It's against eBay policy to sell used underwear, should be against eBay policy to return used underwear as well but they over look it.
Today I just got an item not as described and the guy says "the boxers are way shorter than they should be. I know because I buy these all the time." So you opened a SNAD for a remorse reason, got it. Reported. Hopefully these reports will work but I'm not holding my breath. Returns are skyrocketing while sales are tanking. Makes total sense in eBay land.
10-31-2019 04:09 PM - edited 10-31-2019 04:10 PM
@richard1rst wrote:
@eleanor*rigby wrote:
He? Well, maybe, I guess . . .I am of the generation that was taught in grammar class that when the gender of a creature was unknown the masculine was always used. The OP never mentioned a gender. OK the OP mention bra straps (could have bought them as a gift for his lady), but I have seen some men with boobs too . (we derisively call then manboobs). Hot in Cleveland did an episode about it once. They really had fun with some atrocious puns. (she) Where you buy your clothes? (he) Oh, I just get them off the rack.
It is just too late in life for me to get used to the whole he/she/it mumbo jumbo.
Don't worry, my generation will fade soon enough and the Politically Correct can take over the language.
I'm in your generation and frankly don't get too bothered about this kind of thing. Particularly when 50% of humanity is NOT male, IMHO that archaic rule can be tossed out (no logic to it). Even in some style guides "they" is considered adequate.
10-31-2019 04:17 PM
absolutely disgusting
thanks for the heads up on selling underwear
please tell me eBay hasn't succumbed to this level of selling
10-31-2019 04:47 PM
@southern*sweet*tea wrote:
As to your extra special return, find the right place to list it and you could make a fortune.
In the very early days of Ebay a listing for a USED Jock Strap would fetch big bucks and show thousands of views on the counter especially if it was being 'modeled' by a young wrestler. Plus another fortune to have it 'personalized'. Now do a search for Well Worn and be suprised. P'd us off as we would try to sell legitimate items and jocks were getting tons of views. For the OP issue, it isn't so much that ebay does not believe you but they can't prove what a seller actually puts into the mail to their buyer so they side with them. It's all messed up. Just glad here in Nor Cal to see light!!