02-09-2025 04:48 PM
So, back on Thurs. January 16, I had a sale. I have 3 day shipping (it's what works for me). I had health testing done on Fri. the 17th and by the time I got home, it was too late to package and ship orders (post office closes at 4:30). On Sat. I get a notification that a buyer wants to cancel an order. Sure, okay, it's packaged but no label yet.
This is what the buyer wrote on the cancel order:
So, I cancel for her and issue the refund. No problem.
TODAY! I am looking through my All Orders and see that this person has left me a Neutral Feedback.
I'm like HUH!?!?!?
She purchased, then she cancelled, she got a full refund. Now, she's leaving me a neutral. WTW?
FEEL GOOD PART. That neutral is nowhere to be seen apparently eBay did something right ........ so, I don't know what she wrote.
02-09-2025 07:00 PM
Sounds like they drink.
02-09-2025 07:06 PM
I do not see a recent neutral FB on the account you posted from.
02-09-2025 07:09 PM
@tobaccocardyahoo wrote:I do not see a recent neutral FB on the account you posted from.
That appears to be the point. eBay proactively removed the FB from a buyer-requested cancelled transaction. Seller didn't even have to request it.
02-10-2025 01:17 AM - edited 02-10-2025 01:34 AM
Now you see how your 3 day shipping works for you - some people just want it now especially after they have paid for their package + some other sites have spoiled buyers with next day delivery. eBay sellers with 1 day handling time or sooner have a distinct advantage over eBay sellers offering your service and can nearly compete with the top dog in the fight.
Sellers with a buyer first approach to selling have a better chance at succeeding vs a sell first approach - sold for a 41.5 year career all in the same industry and basically the same products with 9 other competing brand names.
Question for you:
How long does it take to put on a shipping label to an already packaged item?? less than 5 minutes for me
Am familiar with "health" testing wife & I see Drs.. and specialists frequently - 10 times in the month of Jan. - 1 to 1/2 hour max, CT scans, annual exams, etc take very little time less than a hour.
What is important in anything we do - it is not who we really are but how we are perceived by others in life is what counts - a paraphrase of the actual statement. Ref: Temple of Gold by William Goldman a very good read - first read it in 1969.
02-10-2025 02:35 AM - edited 02-10-2025 02:44 AM
@wastingtime101 wrote:
@tobaccocardyahoo wrote:I do not see a recent neutral FB on the account you posted from.
That appears to be the point. eBay proactively removed the FB from a buyer-requested cancelled transaction. Seller didn't even have to request it.
Which speaks to the very real possibility that eBay's foray into AI is starting to reap some genuine benefits, especially for sellers.
I do not want to get ahead of the available evidence, but since last summer I have seen on the forums a steadily increasing number of these sorts of anecdotes (from sellers having unjustified feedback removed proactively by eBay).
But NOT from all sellers, however, which is an interesting wrinkle. One which to my mind testifies to the ability of AI to reach deep into a seller's account and look at the whole picture -- metrics, seller communication with buyers, seller replies to negative feedback, in other words, assessing how the seller comports him / herself on the platform as a whole -- before rendering a verdict.
And this sort of "big picture" evaluation of sellers is precisely what is spelled out in Article 4 of the eBay user agreement... except now, said evaluation can be accomplished in seconds.
Would enjoy hearing from others on this.
02-10-2025 04:47 AM
This is not the first post about feedback (negative) being magically removed.
All of these seem to have one thing in common. (Buyers that cancel, get refunded and leave negative/neutral feedback)
02-10-2025 04:51 AM
Sorry about your health issues, we are at the mercy of some really merciless buyers & that is why feedback should just be eliminated, someone has a bad day or whatever & we get the backlash, At least you had a silver lining!
02-10-2025 05:25 AM - edited 02-10-2025 05:25 AM
@gwens*4saleitems* wrote:She purchased, then she cancelled, she got a full refund. Now, she's leaving me a neutral. WTW?
I can imagine a scenario where I buy an item and cancel and get a full refund ... and the seller absolutely, 100% deserves a neutral or a negative feedback that eBay should not remove.
It's very hard to write rules that are fair in all cases.
02-10-2025 09:36 AM
You don't see it because it was removed by eBay even before I saw it.
02-10-2025 09:46 AM
You know, even IF I printed out the shipping label, put it on the package to be ready to go, it still wouldn't have gone out until Saturday afternoon. This transaction happened on the Thursday before Martin Luther King Day which closed the post offices on Monday. So .......................... she still wouldn't have received the package BEFORE her so-called dinner party.
Now, had she messaged me about needing this when she purchased, I may have tried harder to get it out Friday morning. I have 3=day shipping for my own reasons.
02-10-2025 10:15 AM
That's good! And probably achieved with a simple matrix. Code wise, eBay seems to be slowly struggling into about 2015. 👏
02-10-2025 10:31 AM - edited 02-10-2025 10:32 AM
@chapeau-noir wrote:That's good! And probably achieved with a simple matrix. Code wise, eBay seems to be slowly struggling into about 2015.
What if the seller changed the terms after the sale, or admits to undisclosed damage or caveats after the sale?
I once had a seller tell me after a purchase: "I just wanted you to be aware that the item you are buying is counterfeit. For the price you paid, you should have known it was not an original".
Another time I negotiated combined shipping beforehand, because I was buying three 8x11 sheets of paper from the UK and shipping was 25 pounds each. The seller agreed to ship all three in one package for 25 pounds, but after the auctions ended he invoiced me for 75 pounds shipping and refused to honor the negotiated shipping rate.
In both my cases, I requested a cancellation and I feel very strongly that a buyer in either of those situations should be able to leave a negative.
02-11-2025 03:52 AM - edited 02-11-2025 04:05 AM
I understand where you are coming from. Was just suggesting how you could have possibly avoided it this issue. In this case with your 3 day handling time technically by eBay rulles they mean you didn't have put this package in the possession of the USPS for 3 business days late Friday orders, Sat. Sun and Holidays don't count as a business day or 7 calendar days. Potentially that means your buyer wouldn't get the package for 13 days (allowing 3 days for USPS shipping and delivery. You would be compliant to eBay expected performance standards. Most buyers "want it now" and only count the days on the calendar. A customer first approach, can and will produce more sales and repeat buyers. See you could have placed your package in the lobby bin in your PO they are open and mail does move over the weekends or you could have handed to your carrier as they dropped off your mail delivery - carriers work well beyond noon on Saturday up to 8 PM some times. Where there is the will there is a way.. Again personally only had a 1 day handling time and often mail the same day day delivery. My buyer FB says my buyer appreciated it and would came back for more. Don't know a salesperson that didn't like more sales. Mom always beat in my head "can' cannot or cain't never got any thing done" and "hard work never hurt anyone" and "nothing ventured, nothing gained"
Your call
One more thing in my selling career when I lost an order I tried to find out why I lost an order but I also wanted to know why I received the order. Both of those inquiries help me to sharpen my selling skills. eBay feedback can give you the answers.
02-11-2025 04:22 AM - edited 02-11-2025 04:35 AM
@meme6253 wrote:Sorry about your health issues, we are at the mercy of some really merciless buyers & that is why feedback should just be eliminated, someone has a bad day or whatever & we get the backlash, At least you had a silver lining!
I know that you would like feedback to be eliminated.
Speaking personally... for the dozen or so categories in which I sell, my reputation is actually vital to my sales.
The testimony of others is important for my particular buyer demographic -- at least as, if not more important than, price, in many cases.
Personally I think eBay is taking the right approach in dealing with a tricky issue. Investing in AI to detect and remove inappropriate or unjustified feedback is a good idea, in my opinion, and seems to be producing good results for many, according to what I've been reading here.
Side note: As an experiment, I have of late started to reply to those who leave unusually thoughtful feedback for me.
eBay seems to like the interaction, because I've noticed a concomitant uptick in sales.
I also have observed a striking increase in the number of offers I am being permitted to make.
(NOTE: I refer here to the ability of AI to examine how a seller manages relations with buyers, and to eBay's ability to respond to that assessment -- if a positive one -- by heightening listing visibility. )
If there are other variables at platy, I am not sure what they could be, as I've not changed much otherwise.
As I've noted previously, AI has the ability to look at the sum total of a seller's comportment on this platform (I am convinced that our official metrics are just the tip of the iceberg).
I have no proof that AI is being so employed, but because the capability exists, I work from the assumption that it is.
For better, or -- for many sellers who do not understand how to communicate with buyers or otherwise manage themselves on this platform -- for worse.