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How can I block the buyer to message me?

I sold a brand new cup in the original sealed box to a buyer 2 months ago. The buyer received it, immediately messaged me like 3 messages on eBay with pictures of the cup, the same cup just with a lot scratches and stains. He claimed that the item was not brand new. My response was ok?! I sold you the cup in the original sealed box, it's not possible that it was not brand new. The buyer then sent me additional multiple messages, complaining that the cup was years old, it was produced years back. He sent me pictures of articles etc to support what he said. So I was like ok?! What do you want? Partial refund? He answered that he wanted a full refund. I said ok but he has to open a return request and send the item back. Then he demanded that I pay for return shipping fee. I said ok to that too. And guess what? he opened a payment dispute through paypal instead of a return request on eBay. Paypal locked me out from the case from the beginning, the only thing I could do was wait. And I waited a month and a half for the result. During the month and a half time, the buyer messaged me almost every day, demanding a refund. Paypal eventually closed the case in the buyer's favor, charged me for the full refund. Then the buyer continued messaging me, claiming that he tried to send the item back to me but my return address is undeliverable, which is funny, since the return address is my wife's law firm address, and they have 10 lawyers in the same office. They get 100+ letters + packages a day. Anyway, so the buyer demanded the reimbursement of the return shipping label fee. He said, I quote "It's all your fault that having an undeliverable return shipping address on ebay, cost me the money for the return shipping label for no reason. So you need to reimburse me, and I'm not sending the item back to you, because I'm not paying 2x return shipping fee." It's been 2 weeks since the case closed, and I still receive at least 2 - 3 messages per day from this buyer.  I blocked the buyer a week ago, but that doesn't stop him to message me. I just want it to stop.  Any idea how I can block him from messaging me???

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How can I block the buyer to message me?

No, lol......I stopped replying to him about 2 weeks ago....And yet I still receive at least 2 - 3 msgs from him.... It annoys me very much because every time he msgs me, I receive notifications from ebay. And I wouldn't know what happened on ebay until I log in to take a look. Imagine that every time I log in only to find out that he msged me again. Ughhh.......

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I think it is beyond ridiculous that a blocked buyer can still send us messages. I had someone in England contact me 2 weeks ago about purchasing 4 of my bubble rider fairies (I don't ship outside the US)...he wanted to purchase them 2 days later after he got paid (this was his story). I checked him out and he seemed legit (good feedback, no weird comments, etc.) so I told him I would change the items to Best Offer on the day he chose so I could do combined shipping. I then proceeded to find a box, get shipping estimates, etc. and never heard from him again. I emailed him once and no response so I blocked him. Fast forward to today and I get a message from him AGAIN asking about buying just one of my fairies. I have my settings so blocked buyers cannot contact me but here he is contacting me again over one of the same items he was after before. It seems stupid to even have a block feature if it doesn't keep blocked people from contacting you. What's the point eBay?

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How can I block the buyer to message me?


Keep in mind any member can still contact you via your seller profile page or your feedback page, whether they're on your blocked list or not. There is  no way to completely block a member from contacting you.


 

Uhhhh....Let's...FIX THAT????? If I'm blocking a buyer, they are HARRASSING ME. HARRASSERS will definitely go out of their way to find a way to contact me if it's possible. Looks like it's not difficult at all to do. This caveat makes the block feature completely useless!!!

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How can I block the buyer to message me?

Zombie thread. 

This one goes to Eleven - Nigel Tufnel

Simply-the-best-for-you Volunteer Community Mentor
eBay Seller since 1996

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How can I block the buyer to message me?

You cannot block any user from messaging you on Ebay. But you can block them from buying and bidding.

 

Regarding the referenced transaction, the buyer obviously has mental problems. Dealing with the mentally ill is one of the bad things about doing business on Ebay. You cannot avoid it. 

 

 

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I guarantee you that if you ignore this buyer, they will go away.

And When I Die - Blood, Sweat & Tears
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Hi everyone,

 

Due to the age of this thread, it has been closed to further replies. Please feel free to start a new thread if you wish to continue to discuss this topic.

 

Thank you for understanding.

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