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Exactly when is enough ENOUGH?

So I sold a vintage doll outfit yesterday.  The buyer is fairly new at 141 and her feedback left shows she has no idea how feedback or eBay really works.  A few false/mistakenly left positives and a string of "how do you ship and does that include PO boxes?"  left AS feedback. 

 

She sent a few messages making offers on it and I replied I wasn't considering any offers right now.  Then she said she wouldn't have the money until 7/1.  I thought that was the end of it until she ended up buying and paying.  She said she "borrowed" the money.  Needless to say my hackles were already up.

 

Since yesterday I've gotten over 20 messages double checking that it was indeed vintage.  I responded with the reasons why I'm certain it is and if she was still in doubt I would be happy to cancel for her.  She would only say she wanted it if it was vintage.  Clearly my 25 years of experience in my niche means nothing, nor does my feedback which she is free to review to confirm that I'm not in the habit of trying to defraud anyone.

 

I can already see what's on the horizon.  She will receive it, claim it's fake, yada yada yada.  So to all the posters who say "kill them with kindness" and "turn them into happy repeat customers with your great customer service skills",  how would you proceed?

 

I'm one more message away from canceling and taking the hit.




Joe

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I am willing to bet, "this" buyer has lost their MBG.  eBay unfortunately does not disclose this information to its Sellers even when these Buyers open a case.  Why is this buyer still allowed on this site to scam other Sellers, this is not this buyer's first rodeo?

 

What saved you from the switcharoo:   When you told her:   I will be opening the return package in the presence of postal staff.  


@getitright1234 

 

What makes you think that?  The buyer lost the current Return Request they opened with the OP ONLY because they didn't ship it back within 5 business days.  

 

If they had lost their ability to use MBG, they would not have been able to open the Return Request in the first place.


 


The OP said the case was closed in her favor because the buyer failed to return the doll within the 5 days.

 

Buyers who have lose their MBG can still make returns.  I learned this first hand, a buyer of mine opened a return and I sent him a return label.   Then only,  by accident did the customer service rep disclose to me, the Buyer has no MBG.


Yes that is correct.  I said that above.  

 

Wow that is very interesting.  That makes no sense to me.  If they can still open them and the seller accepts the return, issues the label, if the buyer had of shipped it back, the seller would have refunded.  So are they or aren't they actually not covered under the MBG.  How in the world would the seller know?

 

Let's get some clarification on this as it is really important.  

 

Can a buyer that is no longer eligible to use the MBG able to still open SNADs?

 

tyler@ebay 

@Anonymous 


Hi @mam98031, a member who has had their Money Back Guarantee coverage revoked will not be able to ask eBay to step in on a request. They can still make a request, as this is a form of communication with the seller and the seller may still help resolve their concerns. The request itself would not be eligible for our protection program and in most instances, eBay would not be able to step in and make a decision of any kind. The request would close on it's own ~30 business days after being opened. A seller typically cannot be informed of the status of another member's account, as this would violate our privacy agreement. A seller should work with a buyer to the best of their ability to address any concerns, as buyers who have opened a request are still registered members of the site and customer service is expected to be provided. 


Very interesting.  Thank you for the clarification.  If it weren't for the current climate of how return request are handled by Ebay, I could understand this.  But since the seller would have no idea any given buyer had lost their ability to have the MBG cover them, the seller would not likely try to dispute the return even if there was clear evidence that the buyer had made false claims.  

 

We are not trained to know that the vast majority of the time if a buyer tries to voice concerns over an open return request, it gets escalated to Ebay and found in the buyer's favor.  Our recourse right now is to Report the Buyer after the fact.  

 

So most sellers [since they don't know the buyer isn't covered under MBG] would not dispute their Return request no matter what the buyer claims.  Which only continues to reward buyers that consistently misbehave.

 

But again, I appreciate your clarification and now I have a better understanding.  Thank you again.


Hi @mam98031, the concerns you have regarding how a seller would handle requests from members who no longer have protection through the Money Back Guarantee are precisely why a seller would not be informed of a buyer's account status regarding this program. A seller should not base how they address a customer's concerns on what possible action eBay would take, but instead resolve said concerns based on the concern being raised. If a member is no longer eligible for the Money Back Guarantee, but has not been removed from the eBay site, then it should be understood that the buyer deserves to have their issues addressed appropriately by their seller.

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I completely agree with that the buyer didn't return because Joe said he would open in front of postal employees. He made it clear he wasn't going to be easily stolen from, and would be giving this thief a difficult time. 

 

This buyer is a very clear example of why those who have lost their MBG status should not be able to purchase on ebay whatsoever. 

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Hi @mam98031, the concerns you have regarding how a seller would handle requests from members who no longer have protection through the Money Back Guarantee are precisely why a seller would not be informed of a buyer's account status regarding this program. A seller should not base how they address a customer's concerns on what possible action eBay would take, but instead resolve said concerns based on the concern being raised. If a member is no longer eligible for the Money Back Guarantee, but has not been removed from the eBay site, then it should be understood that the buyer deserves to have their issues addressed appropriately by their seller.

 

I apologize.  I must not have explained myself very well.  I have always and will always continue to take care of my customers.  But sometimes when it is clear in a return request that the return shouldn't happen, in the current system the seller, while they can try to deny the return, it is a rarity that they could actually win that fight.  And instead will most times end up with a escalation and a defect.  

 

So my point was, with a buyer able to open a Return request when they aren't eligible to use the MBG, the seller, even if they have good solid evidence that the buyer filed a false claim, would not likely try to deny it because they don't want the defect.  That seller wouldn't know that they couldn't get a defect as Ebay has trained us well to expect it if we try to deny a return request no matter how much evidence we have.

 

I completely respect that even a buyer that is not eligible for coverage under the MBG may have a very legit reason to request a return.  I'm not suggesting anything any different and sellers should always take care of that customer in the appropriate manner.  I am not suggesting that just because a buyer isn't covered by MBG that they should not be able to return something for legit reasons.

 

It is just that sellers are stuck with no recourse at all.  We must accept a SNAD for any reason the buyer may choose to throw out there or no reason at all.  Just accept The return and move on.

 

Sellers do NOT have the luxury of responding to or processing a SNAD on the merits of what the buyer files it for.  In doing that it could lead the seller to a defect.  Granted most times buyers have what they feel is a legit reason for asking for the return and refund.  And most requests are processed without issue.  There are those that are filed for reasons that should not rise to a actual return and refund.  But sellers shouldn't raise those concerns until AFTER the Return Request is fully process for the risk of a defect, then we can report the buyer.

 

I am in no way suggesting that sellers should not take care of their customers.  I would never suggest that.


mam98031  •  Volunteer Community Member  •  Buyer/Seller since 1999

"I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you." Quote from Edward I Koch

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@ersatz_sobriquet wrote:

I completely agree with that the buyer didn't return because Joe said he would open in front of postal employees. He made it clear he wasn't going to be easily stolen from, and would be giving this thief a difficult time. 

 

This buyer is a very clear example of why those who have lost their MBG status should not be able to purchase on ebay whatsoever. 


@ersatz_sobriquet 

 

The point is that if they had of shipped the item back within the allotted time, the seller would have to process the refund.  Whether or not they had lost their protection would not come into play unless the claim had been escalated to Ebay if the seller refused to refund.

 

All sellers have the right to call Ebay and have a Return request closed for non compliance if a buyer, any buyer, does not ship the item back in 5 business days from the time the return label was issued.

 

You may very well be right that the buyer didn't want the item to be opened in front of a postal employee because they had every intention of scamming the seller.  That is an absolute possibility.  But that doesn't equal that they aren't eligible for the MBG.


mam98031  •  Volunteer Community Member  •  Buyer/Seller since 1999

"I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you." Quote from Edward I Koch

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In my case, with my buyer, he harvested the keys off my typewriter.  He open a return declaring damage and missing keys.  His claims were an absolute lie.  In all my (12) pictures, the typewriter had keys, he refused to send pictures of any box damages.

 

My buyer knew eBay would not disclose his past similiar actions; therefore he was able to open a return, he used it to his advantage.  I feel I should have known he had lost his MBG.   I lost over $150 with this scammer.  

 

Buyers who have lost their MBG should only be encouraged by eBay to contact the Seller for resolution;  they should not be allowed to hide behind a non-existant MBG, a guaratee that their actions/history/pattern has caused them to loose.

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@getitright1234 wrote:

In my case, with my buyer, he harvested the keys off my typewriter.  He open a return declaring damage and missing keys.  His claims were an absolute lie.  In all my (12) pictures, the typewriter had keys, he refused to send pictures of any box damages.

 

My buyer knew eBay would not disclose his past similiar actions; therefore he was able to open a return, he used it to his advantage.  I feel I should have known he had lost his MBG.   I lost over $150 with this scammer.  

 

Buyers who have lost their MBG should only be encouraged by eBay to contact the Seller for resolution;  they should not be allowed to hide behind a non-existant MBG, a guaratee that their actions/history/pattern has caused them to loose.


Did you report them after you finished with the claim?  Did Ebay refund you?

 

Your story is exactly what I was trying to explain to Trinton.  


mam98031  •  Volunteer Community Member  •  Buyer/Seller since 1999

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The OP said the case was closed in her favor because the buyer failed to return the doll within the 5 days.

 

This is true.  I doubt the buyer could have opened any type of case on eBay if her MBG privileges were compromised.  But there's still PAYPAL.

 

And for the record this was an outfit.  I sell vintage dolls and toys but I'm a him...




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I completely agree with that the buyer didn't return because Joe said he would open in front of postal employees. He made it clear he wasn't going to be easily stolen from, and would be giving this thief a difficult time. 

 

This buyer is a very clear example of why those who have lost their MBG status should not be able to purchase on ebay whatsoever. 





Joe

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The OP said the case was closed in her favor because the buyer failed to return the doll within the 5 days.

 

This is true.  I doubt the buyer could have opened any type of case on eBay if her MBG privileges were compromised.  But there's still PAYPAL.

 

And for the record this was an outfit.  I sell vintage dolls and toys but I'm a him...


@tellmemama 

 

According to Trinton in Post 85 they CAN open returns on Ebay.


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@mam98031 wrote:

@tellmemama wrote:

The OP said the case was closed in her favor because the buyer failed to return the doll within the 5 days.

 

This is true.  I doubt the buyer could have opened any type of case on eBay if her MBG privileges were compromised.  But there's still PAYPAL.

 

And for the record this was an outfit.  I sell vintage dolls and toys but I'm a him...


@tellmemama 

 

According to Trinton in Post 85 they CAN open returns on Ebay.


Hi @mam98031, happy to clarify that a return can be requested, but a Money Back Guarantee case cannot be opened by someone who has had their protection through our program revoked. 

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@mam98031 wrote:

@tellmemama wrote:

The OP said the case was closed in her favor because the buyer failed to return the doll within the 5 days.

 

This is true.  I doubt the buyer could have opened any type of case on eBay if her MBG privileges were compromised.  But there's still PAYPAL.

 

And for the record this was an outfit.  I sell vintage dolls and toys but I'm a him...


@tellmemama 

 

According to Trinton in Post 85 they CAN open returns on Ebay.


Hi @mam98031, happy to clarify that a return can be requested, but a Money Back Guarantee case cannot be opened by someone who has had their protection through our program revoked. 


@Anonymous 

 

What is the distinction between opening a Request for Return and a MBG Case?

 

Are you saying that opening a Request for Return through Ebay is NOT considered an MBG case?

 

Does it only become an MBG case if the Request for Return is escalated to Ebay?

 

If the answers to my questions are yes, it doesn't change anything I said before.


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@Anonymous wrote:

a member who has had their Money Back Guarantee coverage revoked will not be able to ask eBay to step in on a request. They can still make a request, as this is a form of communication with the seller and the seller may still help resolve their concerns. The request itself would not be eligible for our protection program

Wondering will the seller also not be able to ask eBay to step in on that request; the option does not appear for both buyer and seller after 3 business days?

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@remispe_54 wrote:

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a member who has had their Money Back Guarantee coverage revoked will not be able to ask eBay to step in on a request. They can still make a request, as this is a form of communication with the seller and the seller may still help resolve their concerns. The request itself would not be eligible for our protection program

Wondering will the seller also not be able to ask eBay to step in on that request; the option does not appear for both buyer and seller after 3 business days?


Sellers can escalate a request for return to Ebay.  It isn't a good idea to do that.  But you can.

 

If the buyer has NOT had their MBG rights taken away [because you can't possibly know that when you escalate a case] then Ebay is highly likely to rule in the favor of the buyer and you will refund plus get a defect.

 

 


mam98031  •  Volunteer Community Member  •  Buyer/Seller since 1999

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@mam98031 wrote:

@Anonymous wrote:

@mam98031 wrote:

@tellmemama wrote:

The OP said the case was closed in her favor because the buyer failed to return the doll within the 5 days.

 

This is true.  I doubt the buyer could have opened any type of case on eBay if her MBG privileges were compromised.  But there's still PAYPAL.

 

And for the record this was an outfit.  I sell vintage dolls and toys but I'm a him...


@tellmemama 

 

According to Trinton in Post 85 they CAN open returns on Ebay.


Hi @mam98031, happy to clarify that a return can be requested, but a Money Back Guarantee case cannot be opened by someone who has had their protection through our program revoked. 


@Anonymous 

 

What is the distinction between opening a Request for Return and a MBG Case?

 

Are you saying that opening a Request for Return through Ebay is NOT considered an MBG case?

 

Does it only become an MBG case if the Request for Return is escalated to Ebay?

 

If the answers to my questions are yes, it doesn't change anything I said before.


Hi @mam98031, a return request or an item not received request are considered requests. If eBay is asked to step in, they become cases. A request would not be considered a case, as these are two separate stages of the process. A case cannot be opened if either member has been removed from the eBay Money Back Guarantee program, because they do not have protection through that program. The request would remain open until it closes automatically after ~30 business days.

 

@tellmemama stated that they doubted any type of case could be opened on eBay through the Money Back Guarantee if a member's privileges were removed, and while a request can be opened, I wanted to ensure there was a distinction and clarification on the fact that cases cannot be opened. A request is between a buyer and a seller, a case is where eBay has stepped in to make a decision.

 

 

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Joe doesn't know the buyer doesn't have MBG status to open a case. Joe only knows that if he doesn't refund upon return of ANYTHING, he will most likely end up with a closed case "without seller resolution". 

Joe is an educated guy. Joe knows the repercussions for not refunding the buyer upon receiving ANYTHING back, in most cases. 

So when Joe gets back the reproduction fake instead of what he sold, he would have thought that he can't win fighting the refund, as we have all been well trained by ebay. 

Joe deserves to know that MBG will not apply in this particular return request, and if that isn't possible, Joe needs a head up that he could have won a case should one have been opened without the dreaded case closed without resolution defect. At the bare minimum, Joe should be consulted by ebay upon receiving the return, asked if he received his item back in the condition he sent it, and then aided in the case that the buyer returned the reproduction fake as in the pictures the buyer uploaded to the return request. Joe shouldn't be left in the dark fearing the case not ending in his favor in that situation should he have tried to argue his case against a faulty return. 

I wouldn't want sellers to refund a faulty return out of fear and in the dark on the case details, would you? 

 

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