True. Definitely not something needed, even if it can be turned off. Those same sellers may want payment in an hr, LOL, but then that same sense of urgency is nowhere when they get a question or an order. Buyers are often urged to be responsible but nothing is said about the seller who shows things they don't include in the order, don't state that it isn't included, pack poorly, blame buyers for their mistakes, you get my drift. We are the only ones who are supposed to be responsible; it is always the buyer's fault. You often read on here about the uneven playing field but it's not said that it's the hierarchy of seller over buyer. Remember, Ebay is nothing without sellers, buyers not needed. I doubt any seller will be here long without buyers, but that is just silly me thinking there and I'm just a stupid buyer. And I know you as a twenty year buyer, like me, who vets carefully, have been told it's your fault and that you didn't vet properly when you can vet very carefully and still end up with a problematic transaction and seller. Our fault, we don't know what we are doing, LOL.
Sorry for a bit of digression there, you have very valid points, @the*dog*ate*my*tablecloth
