Issue a refund or pay for a return label - and refund when you get the toys back, whichever costs you less money. If the buyer opens a return case, eBay will give you those choices. Never escalate a case as a seller...
As a seller, you must understand that you will lose money on an occasional sale - you make your money at the margin, after all costs are deducted.
You might want to test the toys out yourself to see how durable they are.
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage. ~ Anais Nin