waiting for item..it doesn't show up on my purchase history

[wooden_flower]

Is it possible you bought the item as a guest - not signed into your account?  Do you have the order confirmation email?  If so, try clicking the view order details link in the email.  If not, use the link on this page - sign out of your account, then use the link -

https://www.ebay.com/help/buying/returns-refunds/returning-item/returning-items-bought-guest?id=4065...