eBay

No I opened a request for the item not a refund

UPDATE: checking his recent feedback... It seems he bought an item on the 21st, so obviously he is on eBay I suppose he isn't checking his messages or something... Also I opened a request for the item to be delivered, if he doesn't respond by aug 31 ...

Yes don't worry I know that

By I don't want a refund I mean I would very much rather have my item even if it comes very late and I would only want a refund as a last resort