you can put in your title. "reserved for ...... the buyers name. then
no-one else can buy it. Then go in and revise the price and shipping to
what you agreed on. thats the easiest way.
have the buyer give you the paypal transaction number or a screen shot
of his payment. he can message it thru ebay.Explain to your buyer you
have not recvd fuds from him.It seems odd if the buyer paid you 3 days
ago it would have shown in your paypal...
if the buyer paid then just ship. Print out a label thru ebay. It's very
simple.keep your personnel life out of ebay, this is business no-one
cares about your casino money.