eBay

So I have noticed that when I sell something on ebay the shipping charges I pay with the ebay discount can be much lower then the charges the buyer pays...I know I can send a refund to the buyer which I do but my concern is buyers looking at the ship...

Lets just say I am more then angry with ebay...I had a ebay store with 650 items in it and due to Covid I was not actively selling things on ebay...I called ebay and asked if I could somehow suspend my ebay store so I would not have to pay the fees u...