after 21 years of selling on ebay, i would NOT refund the buyer till the
item is received. I would also inform the seller of that (maintain
friendliness). ebay stepping in ONE TIME is not actually that big of a
deal. a report will be made on your acc...
if you paid for your label via Paypal, open a dispute against ebay for
misrepresentation of shipping costs. you will probably have to call. you
would have to take screenshots of what ebay estimated the costs would be
and what they actually charged. I...