Sometimes there are ebay seller groups in your town that meet in person!
Look on Meetup app and see if you have one. Even a zoom meeting of this
type might help. Good Luck to you!
I've had a hard time getting people to pick up their stuff on FBM. Even
if it's paid for! I don't want to babysit the item (due to weather) for
days while buyer gets a minute to pick up their item. Usually large
artwork or small furnishings... maybe ...