$45 may seem a lot or little if you don't say how many records, and what records LP, SP. For ten, it may probably be OK, for one, it is a rip off. There are other services that seller can use with faster delivery. I don't use ebay, my recent sales in calendar (not business) days, with confirmed delivery: Singapore, 14,16 and 18 days, Australia, in average 23 days, Thailand 31, Taiwan 29, 31 days, China 21, Japan 10 various orders betw 9-15 days, New Zealand 19. I did not mail anything to the Philippines recently.
I would say there is a chance you would get your order sooner. It depends to a large extent on how long it is held at the customs. For example, Ebay may not provide a correct commodity code number, and this can easily add 2 weeks at the customs if the order is processed manually (or they may be other reason, additional errors on the electronic customs form)
