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help! buyer is threatening with negative feedback, what should I do? is this extortion?

she is saying the item is damaged and I didn't describe it. I didn't see that damage, when I checked the item, so it seems like extortion to me. 

I offer no refunds or returns.

She is threatening with leaving bad feedback. Should I just let her do that? what can I do afterwards? can that be ever be deleted if I talk to ebay customer service?? or can I only do the reply thing?

Should I offer an excemption and offer a Return for refund?

or just wait 

 

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help! buyer is threatening with negative feedback, what should I do? is this extortion?

You do have to refund but depending on their exact words regarding bad feedback here is the ebay policy regarding that:

What are the main feedback extortion rules for buyers?
Buyers can't use the threat of negative (or promise of positive) feedback to get a seller to provide goods or services that weren't included in the original item's description or purchase price. Similarly, they can't use feedback to force a seller to accept a return, or give a refund, if they're not required to by the terms of their listing, or the eBay Money Back Guarantee.
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help! buyer is threatening with negative feedback, what should I do? is this extortion?

Finally I will add a caution - Please come back and ask questions if at any point one has doubts.  We see too many sellers come here because they "thought" they were doing the right things and instead made fatal flaws.  So ask before acting - no need to "wing it!"

 

True.  After the fact, there is often nothing that can  be done.  But if this Board were consulted when the problem began, help might have allowed for successful navigation of the issue.

 

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help! buyer is threatening with negative feedback, what should I do? is this extortion?


@turquoisetulips wrote:

@effie*s_trinkets wrote:

she is saying the item is damaged and I didn't describe it. I didn't see that damage, when I checked the item, so it seems like extortion to me. 

I offer no refunds or returns.

She is threatening with leaving bad feedback. Should I just let her do that? what can I do afterwards? can that be ever be deleted if I talk to ebay customer service?? or can I only do the reply thing?

Should I offer an excemption and offer a Return for refund?

or just wait 

 


I just had the exact thing happen yesterday .I had sold a beautiful bracelet  for well under what it was worth  to a buyer . I had purchased it brand new previously  and never wore it  . The buyer contacted me and said the latch wouldn't close when she tried to put it on . I suppose that's possible since I never tried it on  myself  . Neither  did I  think to check the latch (my bad]  . I just assumed since the bracelet was brand new it was all good . Anyway , I just apologised and asked her to begin a return  in which she has  since  . So at this point I'm kind of glad that I don't need to fork out a ton of money  with  the refund . Tulips 


Things happen.  I'm glad you won't be out a lot of money, too.  

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help! buyer is threatening with negative feedback, what should I do? is this extortion?


@effie*s_trinkets wrote:

update! They just requested a return! does this mean I have to pay for the postage? or will they pay?

first time having to do this...

😞


If you want the buyer to ship the item back, yes.

If not, you can just issue the refund.

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