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Sellers should learn not to say NO.

I need six  1" glass marbles for a project.

 

I came across a listing for 2 pounds of 1" glass marbles for $23.99 with free shipping.

 

I'm not sure how many marbles are in 2 pounds but i'm sure t's way more than i need. 

 

I messaged the seller and explained how i only need 6 marbles. If he would be willing to sell me 6,  let me know how much.

 

The seller replied with "sorry such a small amount is not cost worthy for me to sell".  Why would he say that without knowing how much i'm willing to pay for 6 of them?  Why not make me an offer?  6 marbles for $5 or 6 marbles for $10 or 6 marbles for $20 ... whatever he thinks is worth his time and effort?   But to just say "NO" is very poor business sense in my opinion. 

Lido Shuffle - Boz Scaggs
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@silly-shoes wrote:
This is a joke right?

No, this is dead serious.  People want to buy 6 marbles at the fast food drive thru.Smiley Very Happy

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@skatefool wrote:

@silly-shoes wrote:
This is a joke right?

No, this is dead serious.  People want to buy 6 marbles at the fast food drive thru.Smiley Very Happy


Smiley Very Happy

 

That's why they don't let them buy at the drive thru~because they could end up dead serious.Smiley Happy

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In my experience, I have learned that when a buyer asks me to split up a lot, If I give them a price which covers shipping, the item and my time to split the lot they have always decide not to purchase the item. Most times without even the courteousness of a response saying such. Just ignored. For example a lot of 6 micro machines with one batman in the lot. When I do receive a response, those who do want to buy it for 1/6th what I have it listed for with free shipping which dose not cover shipping. Hence why they are in a lot. Sometimes sellers might be considering costs that you are not as a buyer. It is the sellers prerogative to provide or deny product or services to anyone (excluding protected statues which have not been brought up as an issue here).
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Didn't read all 10 pages but I think perhaps it's a case of the buyer just not understanding just how much it cost to sell something so small these days on eBay? eBay - Paypal - USPO - cost of the material and hopefully make some kind of profit. Because the chinese do it they think US sellers should too. We don't get free postage from the government - the government doesn't subsidize us.  I truly believe these buyers don't get it. If you can't turn a profit your not in business

 

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@dazzlecity wrote:

Didn't read all 10 pages but I think perhaps it's a case of the buyer just not understanding just how much it cost to sell something so small these days on eBay? eBay - Paypal - USPO - cost of the material and hopefully make some kind of profit. Because the chinese do it they think US sellers should too. We don't get free postage from the government - the government doesn't subsidize us.  I truly believe these buyers don't get it. If you can't turn a profit your not in business

 


I see your point but that is not applicable to the OP, who is a seller in Hawaii, who frequently posts on this Board.

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inhawaii

 

I want to apologize to you for something I said yesterday.  I said that there was an 'emotional' component to your complaint and gouged you about it, with some examples. Sometimes I think I'm a regular wit but sometimes I'm only half right.

 

Coincidentally, yesterday I posted something about myself on facebook, making fun of myself about something that I'd misheard for literally decades and telling friends/acquaintances that they had permission to laugh at me for my mistake.  It's actually quite funny but I'll share it here another time when I'm not feeling stung.

Everybody who responded posted a laugh emoticon except one person, who figured that what was REALLY funny, was that I'd waste time and emotional energy getting upset about it enough to be bothered for decades and post about it now.

 

It really hurt my feelings when I read that - as I've always thought that when someone exposes themselves to laughter, the decent thing to do is laugh along, not pile on with fresh things to laugh at them about.  Changing laugh with to laugh at is never much fun for the person on the receiving end.

 

It made me reflect on what I wrote to you.  I realized that I overstepped and that it was unkind of me.  And unjust.


I'm really sorry.

 


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City*satins

Well that's nice of you and I'm sure inhawaii will appreciate it.

Now then, back to Monty Python & Fawlty Towers.

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@city*satins wrote:

inhawaii

 

I want to apologize to you for something I said yesterday.  I said that there was an 'emotional' component to your complaint and gouged you about it, with some examples. Sometimes I think I'm a regular wit but sometimes I'm only half right.

 

Coincidentally, yesterday I posted something about myself on facebook, making fun of myself about something that I'd misheard for literally decades and telling friends/acquaintances that they had permission to laugh at me for my mistake.  It's actually quite funny but I'll share it here another time when I'm not feeling stung.

Everybody who responded posted a laugh emoticon except one person, who figured that what was REALLY funny, was that I'd waste time and emotional energy getting upset about it enough to be bothered for decades and post about it now.

 

It really hurt my feelings when I read that - as I've always thought that when someone exposes themselves to laughter, the decent thing to do is laugh along, not pile on with fresh things to laugh at them about.  Changing laugh with to laugh at is never much fun for the person on the receiving end.

 

It made me reflect on what I wrote to you.  I realized that I overstepped and that it was unkind of me.  And unjust.


I'm really sorry.

 


What a beautiful post.  I don't agree with the statement on wasting time and emotion getting upset about it for decades and posting about it now.  You admitted your faux pas, misunderstanding, and laughed at yourself.  I think that is great.  Perhaps some can easily dismiss their conscience and not care about any destruction they have left in their wake through missteps, mistakes, or poor choices and behavior, but those who can't or don't have the sensitivity to be concerned about that, and that is not wrong.  That's taking responsibility for your actions and admitting that you are fallible~which not everyone can do~possibly the one negative comment came from such a one

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Granted this was just something you misinterpreted, and not that serious, but I think the fact that everyone posted a laughing emoticon, except that one person, speaks volumes about that one person.  Please don't feel stung.  I admire your apologizing; everyone makes mistakes, and I am no different, but an explanation and an apology, if possible, is the right thing to do.

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Ran out of edit time.

 

My apologies as I have hopelessly entangled several issues, the reaction by one to the Facebook post, the initial post about misunderstanding a saying, and the apology to the initial post to the OP.

 

A lot swirling around there, sorry!  I apologize for any confusion.

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You want to put your money where your mouth is?

 

Let's do this, grab a chronometer or whatever you have to measure time:

Weigh, measure, count, whatever you do to get something ready for a listing.

 

Take pictures, it takes time to upload them, then download them to Ebay.

 

Then, you create a listing, you have to "think" about what to say, or not to say. Unless you have a one type of description, you will spend time on describing and the disclaimers about the unique item.

 

Then, store it, inventory it, etc.

 

Stop the time. Write it down, you are not done yet.

 

You get to sell it, and you do, you get the sound of the register in your phone.

 

Start the watch now, you have to wrap it, box it, tape it, and label it.

 

How much are you making if that item or lot is sold?

 

Now, grab your watch again, and start counting the minutes from the request to grab 6 items from that bag of "whatever".  

 

You need to open the bag, hopefully is only 6 of any kind. You need to bag them, then go to your computer and print the label. You tape the label to the bag or the bubble wrap envelope. Stop the watch? Not yet! You need to walk out of your house or room and place it in a bin for the mail carrier to pick it up.

 

Driving to drop the packages at the post office? How many miles? How long?

 

Are you in line and waiting for the scan? Oh boy! How long? 

 

It doesn't take 7 seconds. 

 

Amen! 

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I do appreciate that.  Apology not necessary but accepted. Like i said, i've been selling here for 20 years.  I've seen and heard it all.  Coming on these boards you have to have "thick skin" and be able to take a little criticism.

 

At no time was i upset with the seller.  At no time was i upset with anyone on the board.  Life's too short.  I just came on here to express my opinion knowing that some people will disagree.

 

Not to open up old wounds but there was alot of talk about "breaking up lots" or "ending listings" or "re-listing". I had no intentions of having the seller do that.  I just figured the guy sells marbles, maybe he's got 6 extra 1" marbles laying around somewhere that he might want to sell me. His decision not to inquire further on my request  is his decision and i respect it.  I may not agree with it, but i respect it. 

 

Have a great day.  The weekend is almost here.  Aloha!

 

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I meant it takes 7 seconds to reply with "I don't have any extras laying around and i don't really want to break up a lot but i'll do it for $XXX".  As a matter of fact, it wouldn't even take 7 seconds. It would have taken the same amount of time as it did to say " sorry such a small amount is not cost worthy for me to sell".

 

If you disagree, that's cool.  You're on the "winning" side.  I'm on the "losing" side of this argument. Let's just let this thread go away already!   LOL

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I've got to say "don't let pedestrian drunks wander through your drive-thru" seems really common-sense to me, even aside from insurance reasons (which is also a valid point).  

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Got a message from someone who said they wanted to buy 2 VHS from me and asked if I would be willing to go lower on them. The cost for both with free shipping was $11.50. I offered $8.00 with free shipping. Her response was "I only pay a $1.00 for VHS tapes, so I couldn't justify paying $4.00 each".

So, yeah, we should learn to say No.
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in the time it took you to write this post you could've purchased marbles elsewhere. move on!


@inhawaii wrote:

I need six  1" glass marbles for a project.

 

I came across a listing for 2 pounds of 1" glass marbles for $23.99 with free shipping.

 

I'm not sure how many marbles are in 2 pounds but i'm sure t's way more than i need. 

 

I messaged the seller and explained how i only need 6 marbles. If he would be willing to sell me 6,  let me know how much.

 

The seller replied with "sorry such a small amount is not cost worthy for me to sell".  Why would he say that without knowing how much i'm willing to pay for 6 of them?  Why not make me an offer?  6 marbles for $5 or 6 marbles for $10 or 6 marbles for $20 ... whatever he thinks is worth his time and effort?   But to just say "NO" is very poor business sense in my opinion. 


 

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