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oliverandbently · ‎08-21-2017

This seller wants me to wear a bra unwashed and mail it. I am not sure how to respond and how I feel Seller has good feedback too.

New message from: Hid Buyer name

Can you keep this bra unwashed? Maybe like wear it for a whole day. I know this might sounds weird but hope you can do that.

pikabo-icu · ‎08-21-2017

Respond with NOOOOOOO!!!

And Block.

That's a fetish thing...

And I believe you meant BUYER

eBay policy states items must be CLEAN

~Pika~
People in life that are the happiest don't have the most,, they make the most of what they have...

emerald40 · ‎08-21-2017

@oliverandbently wrote:
This seller wants me to wear a bra unwashed and mail it. I am not sure how to respond and how I feel Seller has good feedback too.
New message from: Hid Buyer name
Can you keep this bra unwashed? Maybe like wear it for a whole day. I know this might sounds weird but hope you can do that.

Having good feedback and having a fetish are not mutually exclusive.

Do you feel comfortable doing this? Do you want him as a buyer who will ask you to wear other articles of clothing and send it to him unwashed?

Do you even want him to know your address?

southernfriedbelle · ‎08-21-2017

Respond like this:

"Ewww!!!"

(Don't type that. Just say it out loud.)

Then hit "Delete' on his message.

Then do what @pikabo-icu said.

Unless you're into that (I don't want to know) and/or are looking to recruit a stalker.

Belle

southernfriedbelle · ‎08-21-2017

Again, Ewwww!!! 😨

Belle

d-k_treasures · ‎08-21-2017

Tell him you are a man.

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"Nothing is obvious to the oblivious"

pikabo-icu · ‎08-21-2017

@d-k_treasures wrote:
Tell him you are a man.

ROFL

That'll do it.. LOL

~Pika~
People in life that are the happiest don't have the most,, they make the most of what they have...

emerald40 · ‎08-21-2017

@pikabo-icu wrote:
@d-k_treasures wrote:
Tell him you are a man.

ROFL

That'll do it.. LOL

On the other hand he might want more than one.

nanakat457 · ‎08-21-2017

Report him to Ebay.

d-k_treasures · ‎08-21-2017

@pikabo-icu wrote:
@d-k_treasures wrote:
Tell him you are a man.

ROFL

That'll do it.. LOL

I was going to continue on to say how and where they would wear it for him, but thought better of it.

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"Nothing is obvious to the oblivious"

retrose1 · ‎08-21-2017

Has the buyer bought it already? If so, then you might consider it.

As was stated, it is a fetish, and not a violent or particularly gross one. I have had some experience with various fetish people and they are incredible buyers. They are loyal, never complain, and if you are willing to abide by their wishes, then they will be repeat buyers and will be willing to pay good prices. They will not come after you or harm you. In fact if you treat them with respect, they will do everything in their power to protect you and see to it that you stay in business.

Sellers come here all the time and complain about no sales and complaining buyers, and there are several sellers that have specialized in fetish areas and are selling 100% of what they list at multiple bids, usually between $50 - 100 a piece and 100% feedback.

What harm can it do you?

(*Bleep*)

sockmonkeydave · ‎08-21-2017

@oliverandbently

Sure no problem, for a fee I will do it...

My wife is glad to see me in clothes.

nc-daydreamer · ‎08-21-2017

Wow.

I'd politely and professionally let him/her know that "While I am aware that services like this exist and can range several hundreds of dollars - sorry, I am just not interested in filling fantasy/fetish requests just because I sell lingerie. However, just to point you in a more productive direction - there are those who may be in this line of business - so look in the adult section of eBay to make such requests. I thank you for your interest in my products." Then BLOCK him/her! (it may be a female - one never knows these days)

There have been known instances where fetish requests have been complied with - only to have the police try and pin DNA evidence of crimes on the wearer. I recommend you do not agree - surely you don't want to risk this fool having access to your address, phone or private email.

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retrose1 · ‎08-21-2017

@nc-daydreamer wrote:
Wow.

I'd politely and professionally let him/her know that "While I am aware that services like this exist and can range several hundreds of dollars - sorry, I am just not interested in filling fantasy/fetish requests just because I sell lingerie. However, just to point you in a more productive direction - there are those who may be in this line of business - so look in the adult section of eBay to make such requests. I thank you for your interest in my products." Then BLOCK him/her! (it may be a female - one never knows these days)

There have been known instances where fetish requests have been complied with - only to have the police try and pin DNA evidence of crimes on the wearer. I recommend you do not agree - surely you don't want to risk this fool having access to your address, phone or private email.

If they want your address, all they have to do is file a return request and ebay will happily supply it to them.

(*Bleep*)