02-26-2023 07:40 AM
We are a top rated business and pride ourselves on fast delieries and quality items but we finally recieved a negative feedback from a horrible customer who lied about the condition of the item. They told me it was covered in dirt and hair (completely untrue) later revoked what they said in a message saying it was as good as new. WTH. They refuse to revice the feedback which is inaccurate and damaging to our business and when I questioned eBay, surprise surprise they won't help. I find it so distressing how much money I've poured into eBay just to be treat like this and I beleive part of the issue is that eBay allows buys to say whatever they like to us sellers but how is it that sellers can only leave buyers good feedback? It's twisted and will be migrating my business elsewhere.
02-26-2023 07:47 AM
Once again, a seller makes matters worse by their response to a negative.
A better response would have been, sorry you’re disappointed, please return for a full refund.
02-26-2023 07:55 AM
I know it's nice to have that perfect 100% feedback score, but if you sell a lot of stuff, you're going to eventually get a buyer who's going to do something like that. In my experience, you just let it go and most people will understand when they look at your feedback page that the negative is likely a fluke.
I've gotten a few bad feedbacks, most were removed automatically but I did get one where someone complained about the quality of a brand new item (how is that my problem?).
I also got a neutral once after helping a customer with a new wifi-mesh system that wouldn't work with his solar panel controller. After going back and forth with messages he finally got the solar panel installers involved and they figured it out. After all that work I did researching the controller and the router and trying to give him suggestions he left me a neutral. Completely undeserved but whatever.
02-26-2023 08:06 AM
Although many of us have done it, most learn that it's not a good idea to respond to feedback until waiting for the emotions to subside.
Although I understand and empathize, namecalling didn't help your case.
02-26-2023 08:07 AM - edited 02-26-2023 08:08 AM
Once again, a seller makes matters worse by their response to a negative.
A better response would have been, sorry you’re disappointed, please return for a full refund.
I'm not saying your response infiniumltd was wrong or inflammatory but how you respond to messages and/or how you leave feedback can complicate things as dryophelia has posted. A lot of sellers tend to forget this and end up name calling or making assumptions/allegations via messages.
Yes it can be frustrating and not fair but knowing how to play the game will help you long term.
02-26-2023 08:20 AM
As others noted, you shot yourself in the foot with your response.
02-26-2023 10:48 AM
when I questioned eBay, surprise surprise they won't help
All eBay knows is that the buyer made two contradictory statements. They have no idea which one is true and which one is false.
Of course you are choosing to believe the feedback is false and the eBay message is true. But some people are conflict averse and when confronted will say whatever they think the other party wants to hear.
02-26-2023 11:46 AM
Why would they lie about the condition of the item, then compliment you by saying it arrived quickly?
Just curious, did you look at that persons "feedback left for others"?
02-26-2023 12:49 PM
If you have proof the buyer changed their tune & told you they made a mistake or got you confused with another seller, in your eBay Messages, you can go here:
https://www.ebay.com/sellerhelp
follow the links & ask eBay to look at your My Messages where the buyer said they made a mistake. No guarantees, but worth a try.
02-26-2023 01:28 PM
To the buyer: "I regret you are unhappy with your purchase. Please return it for a refund."
As a reply to the neg: "Offered refund on return. Refuses to return and does not want refund."
The only ones who will ever read your feedback or your Response would be future customers. Do not make any Response that will alienate them.
You did more harm to your selling account with your response than the buyer did with his neg.
02-26-2023 01:35 PM
Sellers can always turn a negative into a positive with a savvy response. The response left on your negative made it look much worse. Keep selling a lot and get it to drop off the 1st page.
02-26-2023 01:35 PM
The most valuable piece of real estate on eBay is the seller’s follow-up response on feedback. It is a rare opportunity to speak to your future buyers, the audience that matters, not the buyer who left the negative.
A well thought out, non-emotional response can utterly disarm a poor rating. Conversely, a blaming, defensive or angry comment serves only to emphasize to potential shoppers that perhaps that seller should be avoided.
The follow-up comment reaches all the prospective buyers who take the time to vet a seller before purchase. They will pay special attention to how a seller handles an upset customer. It is not the negative that damages business, as most buyers recognize that there are occasional buyers who get confused, or can’t be pleased. It is the seller’s words that carry the most weight and are of greatest interest.
Name-calling is a damaging way to handle a negative rating, even when one is justifiably angry. Leaving a response when one is furious rarely serves a seller’s interests.
Keep in mind that feedback is losing its impact as time goes on. Because it is arbitrary and subjective, as well as voluntary, eBay no longer uses it to evaluate a seller’s performance metrics. Fewer buyers are leaving it and fewer are consulting it.
Also, one negative in a sea of happy customers’ positive ratings does not have the deleterious effect you give it credit for. So it was unnecessary to lash out at the confused customer’s comments. They would soon be covered up by more positives, and a simple, “We offered a full refund that the buyer declined.” says everything that need be said. Future buyers would then see your excellent customer service instead of your rancor, and plainly know the negative was from a flaky customer.
02-26-2023 05:57 PM
Ebay has a broken system whereever you turn. I am seriously thinking about leaving ebay after 20 years. The sheer amateur way they do things. I am in a case now that the buyer, left me a negative feedback. After contacting him, he said he is trying to change the feedback but the ebay system crashes and he can't do the change. Not surprised at all. After the 10 days they will close it forever. There is no way I can update the help desk ticket, no way I can talk to a human being. It is infuriating and ebay doesn't care in the slightest. I think I will move to another platform just over this incident.
02-26-2023 05:59 PM
why should I let it go? The buyer wants to revise it and their system crashes on him when he tried to change it. Do you think they care do you think they have anything in place to work out a bug a major bug like this? ha.
02-26-2023 06:11 PM
Sorry, but I can actually see hairs on the jacket just in the photo, so I imagine it could have been worse in real life.
Maybe your buyer had a point, though they probably exaggerated to the max.