03-19-2019 04:09 PM
ok a problem with a buyer is what this is , package DELIVERED 4 pm march 18th, heres what buyer says.
BUYER
03-19-2019 07:09 PM
Ebay has a relatively new rule about shipping insurance. A seller cannot charge extra for it. It can be folded into the price, but that cannot be stated as an additional charge.
Shipping insurance is for the seller and it is the seller who must pursue the claim with the carrier, not the buyer. Buyers have the Money Back Guarantee to protect their interests. Sellers have insurance. Your buyer was surprised by this mistaken notion regarding the insurance claim, and said so, which confused the matter more.
There is a way to let a buyer down gently when an item is lost but scanned as delivered. Handling upset buyers is part of the deal, and you already know your final remarks were unprofessional and did nothing to defuse the situation.
Why do you resent the buyer getting a refund from eBay? Our purpose here is not about being right, it is about making the sale and satisfying the customer, even if they are being difficult, as yours most definitely was. Sorry this happened.
(PS—Not advocating one should mollify a buyer at any expense. Sometimes it is not possible to make an upset buyer happy again.)
03-19-2019 07:25 PM
You did many things wrong,
many things incorrectly
and you did little to make your buyer glad he went on eBay and bought from you.
All sellers need to know...
.. that this scenario does happen
and they, the Seller, can contact the USPS and find the GPS coordinates of the delivery..
... to confirm whether the package was delivered to the proper address, or not.
So...
initial responses from the seller
should be calm, and professionally state that they will contact the USPS and find if the package was mis-delivered, or not.
Waaaaaaaaay to much back-and-forth in messages, in my opinion.
And I feel the tone did not work in the best interests of the seller.
Thanks,
Lynn
03-19-2019 08:02 PM
I had a package from Amazon scan delivered, and I couldn’t find it anywhere. Waited a day. Asked my roommate. Emailed seller.
Got a message back that they’d open a claim with USPS.
Felt pretty stupid when I found it under a pile of old mail the same roommate had brought in a few days earlier ... she does tend to live in an opiate fog, sad to say.
Now I have another one scanned delivered that I can’t find. No mess to hide under this time, although same drill with the same roommate.
Sigh.
03-19-2019 08:09 PM - edited 03-19-2019 08:11 PM
@this*old*attic wrote:I had a package from Amazon scan delivered, and I couldn’t find it anywhere. Waited a day. Asked my roommate. Emailed seller.
Got a message back that they’d open a claim with USPS.
Felt pretty stupid when I found it under a pile of old mail the same roommate had brought in a few days earlier ... she does tend to live in an opiate fog, sad to say.
Now I have another one scanned delivered that I can’t find. No mess to hide under this time, although same drill with the same roommate.
Sigh.
I did the same thing once. Messaged the seller that my item never arrived. Package showed delivered in tracking. Family member had put it on my packing table and I found it about a week later ....
It was a phone cord, small package .
03-19-2019 08:16 PM
Both of mine are tiny too.
One is replacement staples for plantation shutters, and the other is a few replacement side pins for the shutters.
03-19-2019 08:20 PM
03-19-2019 08:32 PM
@juststuffisell wrote:
I'm not going to beat you up like some responses. We are human, and we are all different. The most important thing is that you learn from this how best to handle a situation where the buyer claims they did not receive their package.
Heck, I had one last year that was signed for and they claimed not received. Like you, I consider it not my problem. If your building has a designated place where packages are delivered and signed for, where I am concerned the problem you have is with your building employees, not with me or USPS. People won't like hearing that either, but it is the truth.
Buyers need to start taking responsibility for their role in the transaction as the buyer - provide a secure and safe place for your package to be delivered and if it is not your home - because no one is home to receive them, ship them to your place of employment kind of thing where someone can't just walk up to your door and walk off with your merchandise - at the sellers expense. Sorry, that is not the problem of the seller. That is really your problem as a buyer, whether you like it or not.
Cheers
Package theft is a real problem in most areas. I live rural and same thing out here. They run the mail boxes at night. We hear about it right away on our neighborhood forum.
Folks that leave their mail in the box get it stolen at times.
It is the buyer's responsibility after that package hits the mailbox or the porch.
Many of today's buyers are too priveledged to take responsibility for anything. Blame someone else is the easy way.
03-19-2019 08:58 PM
I sympathize with your situation as a seller, being there was a delivery scan. But it reminded me of Monday when I found a box at my door that was actually for a neighbor about a half mile down the road.
I decided to deliver it myself. The guy wasn’t home but I left it at his kitchen door under the carport.
That box was likely scanned as delivered at my house by the new USPS carrier we have had for a week or two, yet my neighbor wouldn’t have had the box if I didn’t take it to his house. This was not his fault. It also wasn’t the seller’s fault.
Your buyer could have been telling the truth.
03-19-2019 09:13 PM
@fashunu4eeuh wrote:
Why do you resent the buyer getting a refund from eBay? Our purpose here is not about being right, it is about making the sale and satisfying the customer, even if they are being difficult, as yours most definitely was. Sorry this happened.
I have to point out that the money being handed to the buyer did not come from eBay, it came from the FEES that SELLERS PAY eBay. This impacts eBay's revenue stream and results in still higher fees for us. The seller has every right to object, the buyer has a responsibility and eBay let them off the hook, at our expense in the long run.
03-19-2019 09:14 PM
There is IMPACT TO YOU BIG TIME. doubleddz
There's no doubt . Tulips
03-19-2019 09:27 PM
I had the same thing happen as a buyer and a seller , sort of . E bay also issued a refund out of their pocket when a buyer made a ridiculous claim [ wasn't even possible] about an item she purchased from me . E bay knew she wasn't being truthful so instead called it a '' remorse purchase '' and gave her a one time refund . I gave her a one way ticket to my bbl list . Tulips
03-19-2019 09:40 PM
@juststuffisell wrote:
I'm not going to beat you up like some responses. We are human, and we are all different. The most important thing is that you learn from this how best to handle a situation where the buyer claims they did not receive their package.
Heck, I had one last year that was signed for and they claimed not received. Like you, I consider it not my problem. If your building has a designated place where packages are delivered and signed for, where I am concerned the problem you have is with your building employees, not with me or USPS. People won't like hearing that either, but it is the truth.
Buyers need to start taking responsibility for their role in the transaction as the buyer - provide a secure and safe place for your package to be delivered and if it is not your home - because no one is home to receive them, ship them to your place of employment kind of thing where someone can't just walk up to your door and walk off with your merchandise - at the sellers expense. Sorry, that is not the problem of the seller. That is really your problem as a buyer, whether you like it or not.
Cheers
I agree with you . When a department store makes a home delivery and the homeowner is away but has taken no precaution in protecting against theft it's certainly not the fault of the store if the item is stolen . By the same token when I put orders outside on the porch for carrier pick up I make sure I stay home and keep an eye on them until the postman arrives if nobody else will be here . Of course it's always good customer service to sympathize with a buyer when an item is misdelivered or stolen and to even lend a hand to assist in finding it . However as far as it being the sellers responsibility ? Nope . Tulips
03-19-2019 09:48 PM
All this stuff about the postman putting packages over the fence.
The box was small 2 x 2 x 4 the postman should remember it.
Am I the only one who realizes this package would fit in ANY mailbox?
03-19-2019 10:24 PM
03-19-2019 10:25 PM
Buyers who live in an area where they cannot leave packages on the porch bear some ALL responsibility for taking care of those packages
FTFY