Seller Made Me Ineligible

[Anonymous]

So I bought this item on EBay and it was not to item I wanted. My fault I know.
I apply for a return and the seller accepts the return. He sends me a return label and I get an email about sending him the item back. 
I have contacted the postal services to get the item sent back and everything is in motion but now I get an email saying that the seller had opened a case with eBay. EBay stated that as the item was according to the description, no refunds will be initiated. EBay closed the case. 

Now what should I do to get the money back? I have neither the item nor the refund. Do I appeal? If I do, will I still get the refund (please bear in mind that the seller sent me a return label and I used that to return the parcel). 

[Anonymous]

@house*of*paws 100% will not be sending my item back if the Seller acts cocky. 🗿 I am at my limit. I paid $120 for something that is $60 at best. This is also the reason why I tried to return the item. I contacted the seller about it first. Like hey, why did you sell something that is originally for $60 only and still available at that price and without replying he involved eBay. Had he replied and if we had a decent conversation, my life could have been better. But I guess I am in the wrong too. I should not have bought something without researching and really looking for my options. I guess I gotta take this thing  as a learning experience and try to get over it. 
Thanks a lot for y’all’s input and help🎀