@msha3839
I would like to get the item and not REFUND due to incompetence of the sellers
eBay cannot force a buyer to pay or a seller to ship. eBay has a Money Back Guarantee for buyers, which can give you your money back but cannot fulfill all the promises made by a seller, incompetent or otherwise.
You have been buying on eBay long enough that you should know to know how to vet your sellers. The two most recent transactions you have left negatives for are from an Indonesian T-shirt seller, and a brand new seller with utterly dismal feedback. Even if neither seller had any negative feedback at the time of your purchase, the lack of seller history should have been a warning to you.
In general, you can avoid a lot of headaches by choosing to purchase only from established sellers that have recent and past positive feedback as a seller for selling items in the same category that you intend to buy. If someone is selling a dozen apple watches, but has no feedback, or only has feedback as a buyer, or only has a handful of recent feedback for selling, perhaps wait until they have a track record of positive feedback for selling electronics before you buy from them.
You might miss out on a good deal from a new seller once in a while, and nothing can guarantee that you won't still run into a scammer anyway, but you can avoid a lot of potential problems by choosing to do business with established sellers. Anyone can put together a listing that looks nice -- it is not hard at all to simply copy an existing listing -- but it is much harder to create a history of consistent sales and positive feedback.
