How to refund a buyer

[doutut-0]

Item on bid,was bought but to far to ship[ I lose money 

[woodland_gnome]

Then you lose money.  You promised to sell the item and ship it to the location for the price plus the s/h fee YOU set up.  Looks like you set up the s/h fee for  a very small light item, rather than a transmission.  Expect to get a defect and negative feedback if you don't ship it timely.

[disneyshopper]

That listing shows $6.66 shipping to me, from New York to California.  It doesn't sound like you entered the correct weight and dimensions for the box when you created the listing.