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Letting Go

Hello Everyone. 

 

I sold an item and the buyer told me that the item was moldy when they received it and cannot be used. I check everything I send out. The item was not moldy or warped. I refunded them the money because I didn't want a bad review. I didn't think to ask them to send it back. It makes me so discouraged and makes me want to quit. How can I let go when things like this happen? 

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Thank  you so much. So sorry about your experiences. 

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Thank you so much. Great advice! 🙂 

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Hi @777infinity 

 

-It is business and not personal, you have taken it personally

 

-You feel violated because someone lied to you in order to get a refund, which in this case worked, new Sellers are targets for this type of bad Buyer behavior

 

-Occasionally transactions go sideways in many different ways, that's part of selling

 

Best regards,
Mr. Lincoln - eBay Community Mentor
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They sent a picture and it showed moisture. I promise I checked before I packed it. When I got home yesterday, I checked another puzzle that was in the same area and stored with it. No moisture. It is confusing me how moisture got there. Thank you so much for your advice. 

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Thank you so much. 

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Thank you so much.

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Thank you so much for your great advice. 🙂 

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