04-03-2025 11:52 AM
So I have an item up for sale for $50 or best offer, someone sent me an offer for $30. They have an item I want up for $50 or best offer. Can I ask them if they want to buy my item for $20 in exchange for selling me their item for $20? Both transactions would happen on platform and obviously we would both pay fees on each sale.
Just curious if anyone has done this before or if it would be considered against the rules?
Thanks in advance 😉
04-03-2025 11:53 AM
No rules against it that I'm aware of. You just send each other offers and can communicate via the offers or via messages. As long as you both accept the offers, you're good.
04-03-2025 11:56 AM
Can't imagine what rule(s) would even be at play here. It sounds a little Abbott & Costello "Who's on First?" to me, but there's nothing wrong with that if you're both content with the arrangement.
04-03-2025 12:12 PM
You can only ask.
04-03-2025 12:19 PM
The worse that could happen is the buyer gets your item for $20, then declines your offer.
04-03-2025 12:36 PM
In some ways, the question should be "will someone, the buyer or Ebay decide that this is against the rules".
The problem with doing anything which is not normal and straight forward is you cannot predict the IQ of a human or bot who sees a sign of something which looks a little fishy. And once a transaction starts a downhill trek, it may continue to the bottom.
Who knows whether some one or some bot will detect this as fee avoidance?
04-03-2025 12:51 PM
@thevintageparadise wrote:So I have an item up for sale for $50 or best offer, someone sent me an offer for $30. They have an item I want up for $50 or best offer. Can I ask them if they want to buy my item for $20 in exchange for selling me their item for $20? Both transactions would happen on platform and obviously we would both pay fees on each sale.
Just curious if anyone has done this before or if it would be considered against the rules?
Thanks in advance 😉
I have done this years ago with no issues. eBay does not care if you keep it on the site. They are getting two sales/fees. Just keep the conversations on eBay and don't include personal emails or phone numbers.
04-03-2025 01:07 PM
That's exactly what I was worried about
04-03-2025 01:09 PM
What would be the point, if the 2 offers add up to the same total amount what advantage would their be for either party?
Seems like a pointless effort for no gain and potential complications.
04-03-2025 01:12 PM
Too complicated.
The advantage of using "money" over barter is a paper trail.
Just sell it at his Best Offer and get paid.
Then buy his item at Best Offer and pay.
KISS.
04-03-2025 01:18 PM
@slippinjimmy wrote:What would be the point, if the 2 offers add up to the same total amount what advantage would their be for either party?
Seems like a pointless effort for no gain and potential complications.
Sometimes it is nice to purchase something without really paying for it. (Trade) It is not that difficult, but it does require some communications between each other which might rule out half of the eBay users on this forum. 😀 I have traded for much better gear that I could flip faster for items that were not selling. It is only complicated if you make it that way. IMHO
04-03-2025 01:20 PM
@femmefan1946 wrote:Too complicated.
The advantage of using "money" over barter is a paper trail.
Just sell it at his Best Offer and get paid.
Then buy his item at Best Offer and pay.
KISS.
That is how you do it. Agree on price and buy each other's items.
04-03-2025 01:21 PM
That's essentially what I'm talking about lol
04-03-2025 02:38 PM
If you do this you will get involved in a series of messages back and forth, I wouldn't do it.
04-03-2025 03:17 PM
We decided to it at the original offer of $40, so I paid $40 for his and he paid $40 for mine. This way eBay gets their fees and we each get a shirt we want for the price of shipping and eBay fees.