how do I direct not through eBay

[baby_mae]

I can ship a sold item in an envelope so shipping through eBay is too expensive.   How do I cancel eBay shipping and just do it myself?

[inceptions]

You don't have to cancel anything, you can just ship it and mark it as shipped. But be aware, shipping without tracking will hurt your seller metrics and you'll also lose Seller Protection on that shipment.