12-24-2018 03:48 PM - last edited on 12-24-2018 04:09 PM by kh-valeria
Buyer claims item not described. After being called man and dude, I let them know I was a woman. Here is the response. Lovely, on Xmas Eve, too.
12-24-2018 03:51 PM
12-24-2018 03:55 PM
because I'm not going to allow someone to call me dude and man. So this is my fault? thanks. You've missed the boat completely
12-24-2018 04:00 PM - last edited on 12-24-2018 04:59 PM by kh-ornesh
some people call everyone dude. Being rude because the buyer was rude and called you dude was uncalled for.
12-24-2018 04:10 PM
Wow!! Not going to tolerate it, Dude!! I'm not remving anything, but disrespect from men. You might want to edit your reply to me, I'm not an easy target.
12-24-2018 04:12 PM
12-24-2018 04:16 PM
I am stunned. People are rude to me, and I take it? And be laughed at because I am a woman? Perhaps this is 1950, and when I wake it will be 2018.... I for one am not going to sit back and take verbal abuse from anyone. No excuses for their age. Oddly, eBay agreed with me.... yet you all don't. That's a first....
12-24-2018 04:21 PM - edited 12-24-2018 04:24 PM
I can see how you'd get annoyed by this buyer but I agree, it's usually best to take a few minutes before responding to people like this. Think about what will come of the situation, whether being aggravated is going to get you anything. The more negative you go the more negative the buyer will be. The inverse is also true- the more compassionate you are the better the buyer will often act. I've turned many aggravated buyers into friends by simply apologizing, even when they're dead wrong.
It's all up to you though, you can argue if you want but just know it will often result in more negative feedback.
12-24-2018 04:24 PM
If I did mess up, I'd rather they call me a dude.
12-24-2018 04:37 PM
12-24-2018 04:42 PM
"Oddly, eBay agreed with me.... yet you all don't. That's a first...."
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I'm sorry this happened to you.
I believe several of the replies to you on this board,
don't meet eBay's Community standards.
I'm sorry,
Lynn
12-24-2018 04:42 PM
You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
12-24-2018 04:44 PM
@2013fitzp wrote:Buyer claims item not described. After being called man and dude, I let them know I was a woman. Here is the response. Lovely, on Xmas Eve, too.
Personally, I've been called worse.
My 17 yr old daughter and her friends call each other "Dude" all the time. Not a Big deal.
And way down on the list of things to get offended over.
12-24-2018 05:18 PM
1. a buyer claimed a SNAD return.
2. in the claim they referred to you as man and dude. like "I want my money back, dude" idk.
3. You were offended and replied, "I am a woman, thank you very much" or some such?
4. Buyer then referred to you as "eve".
5. You are now perplexed or upset or insulted or offended or all the above. Idk.
6. Because why?
12-24-2018 05:25 PM
I could never get bent out of shape for something a stranger calls me. Sticks and stones....