@bearswatching
There are many reasons as a seller that I hated being forced to accept IPR (instant payment required). My settings have always had it unchecked but Ebay has forced IPR on me and my buyers. There are many other sellers that would agree. I have never had a problem with non payers, but if you do, it should be an option NOT forced.
This new policy and message is very BAD for most of the reasons below, and it is also very THREATENING in nature. Buyers don't want to be threatened, and many buyers are going to think this message is from the seller.
I would really prefer that Ebay not threaten my buyers, as I don't care if they don't pay right away.
1) It seriously discourages multiple purchases, most buyers including myself hate the cart as it rarely works correctly. and the item is not yours while it is in there.
2) It forces me to ship the item (because the buyer was forced to pay) even if the buyer wants to continue browsing my store, or has bids (or wants to bid) on my auctions, etc.
3) I can't tell you how many single payments I have received minutes/seconds apart because of this and because of Ebay's IPR policy, and the faulty cart.
4) Way way back when Ebay forced IPR on me, I finally had to switch to free domestic shipping, because I got tired of refunding all the duplicate shipping charges.
5) Because of all these multiple payments, I have to print out multiple packing slips, which is a lot more work and increase waste and postage.
Don't get me started on the new PDF format packing slips. at least 3 extra steps and can't format.
6) All these sellers that complain about non payers, have always had the option to require IPR instant payment, and unfortunately Ebay has required it for quite some time on BIN items, whether you wanted it or not.
Now as a buyer I also hate IPR for most of the same reasons I stated above.
1) I can't tell you how many impulse purchases I didn't make because I wanted more time to browse somebody's listings or wanted to try to combine shipping on other items . Rarely would I go back to the store after I left it, because I was not committed to a purchase.
2) I don't like to be forced to pay for an item, knowing I am going to bid on something from the same sellers auctions.
Then because I was forced to pay tight away, Ebay is forcing the seller to use multiple shipments or get a late shipment if they wait for the auction end, (whatever happened to Ebay wanting to be a green company). Unlike a lot of commenters on this board, a lot of sellers I deal with never had a problem waiting for a payment, and like me encouraged buyers to take their time and browse.
3) I do try to use the cart sometimes, but more often than not, I get an error message trying to ask for a combined invoice, saying seller does not combine shipping. When I know they do and they state it in the listing. This error on many occasions has made me just say the heck with it and not bother to complete the sale
I also constantly get "item not added" error "seller is on vacation" even though the seller is not on vacation and the item actually does get added to the cart. I finally actually figured out the Ebay bug that was causing this one, but can't always eliminate it.
There is a 3rd one but I can't remember it off hand.
Enough typing for now, I just got so angry after I saw this new message while trying to check out for an auction I won.
What is Ebay thinking, if their intent is to P**s off buyers, and sellers that don't want such a message associated with any of their sales, they are certainly succeeding.