@ljmgoods wrote:
sometimes change is good. some are set in there ways .I'm the old school guy ,set in my ways and when change happens /i get scared of the unknown . when you dig yourself in a hole ,its time to stop digging.......
When I encounter someone who thinks as yourself I always ask, exactly what is it that scares you? When it comes to our fears, first we need to be able to verbalize it because just that much can sometimes start the process of devaluing the fear. After verbalizing we set about discussing the fear. After that, we discuss what drives this fear. These are steps one takes to break down the specific fear and bring it out into the open, where it's never really that scary at all. In order to overcome the fear you need to start with talking specifically about it. Best of luck to you....
