I went several years ago with 3 of my friends. (2gals 2guys) They dared us and we both had more fun then they did. The "dancer" came and sat with us when the guys went to the rest room. We had too many laughs, mostly at the clients! Sorry!!! As for the other, I have a few friends and we used to go alot. NO worries for me in a place like that and you can have tons of fun too.