03-04-2019 06:35 PM
So I recently made a large purchase that my grandmother put on her credit card and even though my shipping address in Arkansas and everything was right, the tracking number said the package was unable to be delivered in Delaware! Asked the seller what address he shipped it to, and he informed me that he shipped it to the Delaware address he was provided in a message after the purchase! The message said there needed to be a change in address because the buyer was moving to be close to their dad in the hospital. Since my name was not on the card that was used to make the purchase, the seller didn't find it odd that a different person was messaging him to change the shipping address, but I never got a notification that the address changed and it still shows my address on my purchase. Has this happen to anyone else?? I know this Delaware address has been identified as a sketchy buyer, but I haven't seen anything about them STEALING peoples purchases!
03-04-2019 06:55 PM
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03-04-2019 08:26 PM
This is exactly one of the reasons a seller should never ship to any address that is NOT attached to the Paypal payment.
Should the seller ever receive a legitimate request to switch addresses, the seller needs to refund the payment, and the buyer repays and uses the CHANGE option during Checkout to change the SHIP TO address.
03-04-2019 09:20 PM
Sorry, your seller fell for a scam.
03-05-2019 01:52 PM
@emlayy2013 wrote:... (the seller) informed me that he shipped it to the Delaware address he was provided in a message after the purchase! The message said there needed to be a change in address because the buyer was moving to be close to their dad in the hospital. Since my name was not on the card that was used to make the purchase, the seller didn't find it odd that a different person was messaging him to change the shipping address...
How did the scammer know about the purchase? Or do they just send a random personal message after they note an item was sold? "I purchased your recent item blah-blah-blah and I need you to change the shipping address..." without actually providing any real identification?
03-05-2019 02:01 PM
@little.font.lord.leroy wrote:
@emlayy2013 wrote:... (the seller) informed me that he shipped it to the Delaware address he was provided in a message after the purchase! The message said there needed to be a change in address because the buyer was moving to be close to their dad in the hospital. Since my name was not on the card that was used to make the purchase, the seller didn't find it odd that a different person was messaging him to change the shipping address...
How did the scammer know about the purchase? Or do they just send a random personal message after they note an item was sold? "I purchased your recent item blah-blah-blah and I need you to change the shipping address..." without actually providing any real identification?
More than likely because they were following the item.
03-06-2019 09:30 AM
The whole thing seems odd to me. I would probably advise the cardholder to advise the credit card company of the incident.
03-06-2019 09:40 AM - edited 03-06-2019 09:45 AM
@little.font.lord.leroy wrote:
@emlayy2013 wrote:... (the seller) informed me that he shipped it to the Delaware address he was provided in a message after the purchase! The message said there needed to be a change in address because the buyer was moving to be close to their dad in the hospital. Since my name was not on the card that was used to make the purchase, the seller didn't find it odd that a different person was messaging him to change the shipping address...
How did the scammer know about the purchase? Or do they just send a random personal message after they note an item was sold? "I purchased your recent item blah-blah-blah and I need you to change the shipping address..." without actually providing any real identification?
I'm sure the scammers just choose recently closed listings at random. Maybe they are targeting particular items, or a particular category, since they are basically trying to steal the items that were just sold. Obviously, they intend to resell the stolen items for a profit.
This scam has been reported frequently in recent months. It is definitely not new, or unusual.
A random family member in the hospital out of town is a common thread with this scam.
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"...Since my name was not on the card that was used to make the purchase, the seller didn't find it odd that a different person was messaging him to change the shipping address..."
FYI, when a purchase is paid for with PayPal, the seller doesn't get any information at all about what card (if any) was used to pay for the purchase. They have no way to know if a credit card was even used to pay. They definitely don't get any information whatsoever about the card itself. Not the name, the number, or even what kind of card it was.
The seller should have noticed that the scammer contacted him from a different user ID. That's the key mistake on the seller's part. I would guess that most of these scam attempts fail, and are never reported on this forum. The scammers only have to succeed in stealing a few items to make it worth their while.
03-06-2019 12:21 PM
@lacemaker3 wrote:
@little.font.lord.leroy wrote:
@emlayy2013 wrote:... (the seller) informed me that he shipped it to the Delaware address he was provided in a message after the purchase! The message said there needed to be a change in address because the buyer was moving to be close to their dad in the hospital. Since my name was not on the card that was used to make the purchase, the seller didn't find it odd that a different person was messaging him to change the shipping address...
How did the scammer know about the purchase? Or do they just send a random personal message after they note an item was sold? "I purchased your recent item blah-blah-blah and I need you to change the shipping address..." without actually providing any real identification?
I'm sure the scammers just choose recently closed listings at random. Maybe they are targeting particular items, or a particular category, since they are basically trying to steal the items that were just sold. Obviously, they intend to resell the stolen items for a profit.
Thanks for the answer, that was basically what I meant to say (after they note(ice) the item was sold.) They are either tracking items that they want (to resell or what ever) and then once it is sold send a PM through eBay messages claiming to be the buyer.
If eBay can troll PMs to see if a seller is making a deal offline, you would think that it would be easy enough to protect unaware sellers with this scam. "(mother, father, son, etc.) in the hospital out of town" would be easy enough to robot troll, and either alert trust and safety or send a warning eMail to the seller. "It seems that a buyer is asking you to ship a purchase to a different address other than the one provided by eBay or Paypal. ..."
03-07-2019 07:36 AM
@emlayy2013 if the item has not been delivered contact the seller and tell them to call the post office and recall the package. It costs a couple $$ but not too much. I wouldn't rely on the return to sender message.