I have had 5 orders that i have refunded because USPS not updating
tracking of packages but it was before 2/4 and after the date and one
still hasnt been delivered and was shipped 1/24 from Ohio to Virginia
and last time it was scanned its in Clevela...
It could be they havent looked at notifications. I had a customer that
moved and forgot to update the address. Good luck I hope it turns out
good for you.
I understand your concerns I have paypal and its linked to my bank
account so you should be able to use it that way .your bank account info
is protected by paypal.