If you didn't send her the item yet than she can't get it without
paying. It could be the buyer is new to the Paypal game. I have also
paid for an item with a credit card through Paypal, just to find it the
money was deducted from my bank account on ...
I notice this too, how all negative feedback seems to "vanish" for
"Powersellers." I was just sold a refurbished BluRay player that the
seller claimed was "brand new." I am also distancing myself from ebay.
People are disgusting and greedy.