02-14-2018 11:15 AM
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Lucas
*still rollin' with the punches*
Sophie - Forever Sidekick: Apr 2007 to Sep 05, 2017
02-14-2018 11:43 AM
Happy "this ..... much" day!!
And adding some "that ..... much .... too"!!
02-14-2018 03:11 PM
Happy "this much" day to everyone 🙂
My cat Rowdy wrote you a poem
02-14-2018 03:13 PM
That is definitely a cat theme. I still have mice (back again), plenty of "food" here for a cat.
02-14-2018 03:15 PM
I am cooking her favorite food, and I got her a bottle of wine.
02-14-2018 03:25 PM
That reminds me, I'm hungry.
I had a coincidentally nice call today. Had to talk with ins about a review paperwork, I'm unsure how to complete, and was not looking forward to it. Wound up w/someone who'd had an accident same year as me, so that dreaded unpleasant call to a robo bureaucracy, turned into a chance for two people to connect and both get a chance to vent and heal a little. A very nice valentine's day surprise.
02-14-2018 03:33 PM
I like to be nice to CS workers, monkey charm.
I ask about the weather first.
Got a girl in Brazil, it was warm and she was going to the beach after work.
I was under a foot of snow.
We talked about travel for a bit.
and she solved my problem in seconds.
Monkey charm, works every time.
02-14-2018 03:40 PM
Sounds like a great method. Will have to try it. I'm a straight to the point, and chit chat after type.
There wasn't a good answer to my question. I was dreading the impatient reaction and repetition of some form-line-explanation that would make me regret I'd even picked up the phone. As it was I had to wait over 1 hour for the callback, then remember what I was calling about... <>. So the chuckling at answers & between the line remarks, helped answer "in spite" of the answer script, lol.
02-14-2018 03:46 PM
My wife works in a medical call center, so every day I hear about the jerk callers.
In my life, I have found if you put a human touch... you get better results.
02-14-2018 03:50 PM
My dad does that too. Smoozes. I'm not rude (when I get on) and try not to get stressed out. I ask their name even if they've said it. At the end try to thank by name. But between, I try for friendly tone of voice, but not small talk. Unless they have a cold I can hear, and then I wish them well with it before I start. Not my personality, I'll have to work on it... I always figure they're paid by the time and I shouldn't waste their time with meaningless exchange.
02-14-2018 04:00 PM
@cheri--b wrote:
My dad does that too. Smoozes. I'm not rude (when I get on) and try not to get stressed out. I ask their name even if they've said it. At the end try to thank by name. But between, I try for friendly tone of voice, but not small talk. Unless they have a cold I can hear, and then I wish them well with it before I start. Not my personality, I'll have to work on it... I always figure they're paid by the time and I shouldn't waste their time with meaningless exchange.
I don't consider it sucking up or Smoozing,
I have worked with pilots and mechanics from all around the world.
And in the seconds that it takes for CS to pull up my account.
I can make small talk, How is the weather...
02-14-2018 04:06 PM
Sucking up is a different concept. Schmoozing is not negative. It's being friendly. It's what you do at the fence with your neighbor or as you walk through a park... Chitchat to make a warm connection.
02-14-2018 04:08 PM
02-14-2018 04:32 PM
Wasn't offended :). My dad's not sucking up. He really does enjoy these aimless chats. He's a very outgoing person.
So what's the favorite food? I'm still hungry. There's a solution but I have to get up to do that.
02-14-2018 04:46 PM
Lasagna with about 5 pounds of meat.