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    Buyer asking to ship in 20-30 days

    Summary: bulkybr_7 is concerned about a buyer who wants their items to be shipped in 5 weeks due to travel plans, despite wanting to pay now for items worth over $1,000. krazzykats, albertabrightalberta, and fm2000 advise against delaying shipment due to potential risks, including negative impacts on seller ratings, the possibility of the buyer filing claims against them, and missing eBay's shipping requirements. Suggestions include canceling the order and having the buyer reorder later or advising them to arrange for mail holds. Contributors agree that the buyer should either make arrangements to receive the package while away or complete the purchase closer to the shipping date for the seller's protection.

                                     

    Hello, new-ish to eBay selling,


    I have a buyer who wants me to ship items in 5 weeks because they will be traveling, but will pay for items now. Is this something we can do? its over $1k worth of items so i am weary and all the info I see doesn't really clarify.

    bulkybr_7
    bulkybr_7
    12View listings
    Posted 1 month ago · Edited 1 month ago·Last reply 1 month ago
                                           
             
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    ryry-jj

    ryry-jj

    ·1 month ago · Edited
    1912View listings

    Do not do this...you are shipping within your time frame. The buyer can request to cancel if that doesn't work out for them.


    The fact that it is $1k is a bigger problem, you are setting yourself up to lose it all without any eBay protection. I can illustrate the scenario for you, but it's best if you just don't go rogue in the first place

                                           
    kibble-net

    kibble-net

    ·1 month ago
    8237View listings

    Cancel order. Reason, buyer requested.


    Tell them to reorder when they return, or just block them if you feel uncomfortable about the whole ordeal.

                                           
    fullers_uk

    fullers_uk

    ·1 month ago
    2598View listings

    20 to 30 days to find a vacant lot so the parcel can vanish or find a dishonest freight forwarder who accepts the shipment but it doesnt get scanned as delivered because there in cahoots with the mail man or courier?

                                           
    kibble-net

    kibble-net

    ·1 month ago
    8237View listings

    I doubt it is something this diabolical, but OP is within their rights to cancel as ebay requires them to ship sooner as per the user agreement.

                                           
    fm2000

    fm2000

    ·1 month ago · Edited
    8062View listings

    $1000 and waiting 20-30 days to ship should be a hard, absolute "no".


    If they want to buy your items now and absolutely have to buy it now and can't wait, tell them to have their mail held (if sending by USPS) or have it held by UPS or FedEx. They will still have to sign to pick it up since it over $1000, and you will have proof of on time delivery. It is probably best for both parties to wait, but there are at least ways to protect yourself.


    Do NOT sit on an item 20-30 days without shipping. You will get a late shipping defect by eBay, and may be opening yourself up to all kinds of more serious problems.


    Occasionally a buyer will buy something from me and want me to wait to ship. I reply with a polite, "As per eBay policy, I must ship next day, you can have your mail held at your post office instead. Or, if you wish, you may cancel your order." Usually they have their mail held, and everyone is happy (and protected.)

                                           
    albertabrightalberta

    albertabrightalberta

    ·1 month ago
    I can explain it to you but I can't understand it for you.104View listings

    I have a buyer who wants me to ship items in 5 weeks because they will be traveling, but will pay for items now. Is this something we can do? its over $1k worth of items so i am weary and all the info I see doesn't really clarify.


    @bulkybr_7

    I don't see $1K worth of items you've sold yet so is this a potential buyer or has someone already purchased and paid?


    Two ways to handle, depending on which of the above applies.


    1. If it's a potential buyer who hasn't yet purchased: Tell the buyer that ebay requires that you ship within 2 days of payment (per your listings) and he'll have to come back in 5 weeks to make the purchase if the items are still available.

    2. If a buyer already bought the items: Tell the buyer that ebay requires that you ship within 2 days of payment (per your listings) and if that doesn't work for them, you can cancel the order and they can come back in 5 weeks to repurchase if the items are still available.

    You do NOT want to make a sale and wait 5 weeks to ship.


    If the buyer isn't honest, even though he asked you to wait to ship, he can file INR long before 5 weeks pass and you'll be issuing a refund.



                                           
    tools*

    tools*

    ·1 month ago
    474View listings

    Send an invoice in a rigid envelope or box, immediately, and include tracking with signature required.



                                           
    albertabrightalberta

    albertabrightalberta

    ·1 month ago
    I can explain it to you but I can't understand it for you.104View listings

    Send an invoice in a rigid envelope or box, immediately, and include tracking with signature required.



    @tools*

    Why would @bulkybr_7 send an invoice immediately and have tracking and s.c.? Is that supposed to show shipment within the handling time?

    If the buyer isn't going to be available to receive the item, why would he be available to get an invoice?

    And what would stop the buyer from filing NAD claiming he received an invoice instead of the items he purchased?

    This suggestion makes no sense to me.

                                           
    fullers_uk

    fullers_uk

    ·1 month ago
    2598View listings

    It will say delivery attempted and the seller will be protected by ebay.

                                           
    krazzykats

    krazzykats

    ·1 month ago
    Who Are You?5739View listings

    Consider pulling the listing and reposting it closer to the delivery date. If the buyer pays now and you delay shipping for five weeks, it could negatively impact your seller ratings for late shipment.

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